So my question is stated above. I mean I can go with the beat and I'm pretty coordinated, but I always feel like if I start getting into it I look like a dumbass. I also don't want to be the guy just standing there. I'm assuming somebody has to have experience with this considering not many people can actually dance.

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"Why do we feel it's necessary to yak about bullshit in order to be comfortable?"- Mia Wallace

Stay away from the dance floor. Dance Floors= LOUDER MUSIC. No part of game involves dancing.

...or you could learn to dance by taking lessons. Learn 1 solo-style and 1 partner-style.

I think dancing is a hypnotically powerful attraction pre-cursor.

The way I see it is, when you're on the dancefloor with a Pawn or Pivot doing a style like Swing...

1. You're pre-selected
2. You become the Showman (alpha male of the whole dancefloor)..
3. It creates a positive emotional response in viewers

I'm short, I do not drink alcohol, I do not find the music of bars and clubs good to listen, I hate telling stories of how impressive I am, I hate trying to convince people to do something that they do not want to do... BUT I love to dance, and the dance floor is where I play my game.

The easiest way to make kino is by dancing.

Here are some pointers:

Enjoy dancing,
Feel the music,
do controlled movements, (many drunk guys when they see I'm stealing the attention of the girls, they just start to move a lot, with rough movements, hitting everything that surrounds them, they get tired after 30 seconds, they look stupid and everybody just moves away from them)
if you do not know any step just move side to side but twice as slow,
get an Xbox with kinect and buy any of the dance central games( no kidding, there is no other product(PUA, self help, or whatever other type of product) that has helped me meet more girls than these video games

Thanks for the advice guys. Basically it sounds like just go with the flow. I can do that.

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"Why do we feel it's necessary to yak about bullshit in order to be comfortable?"- Mia Wallace