I should of be doing this super smooth, I'm a host at a resturant, and a pua, and I still can't carry a conversation. Can someonebgive me some advice on transition from meeting a girl to normal conversation like we r friends, as well how can I carry a longer conversation. Maybe I suck that why I feel the conversation die out. " sometime girls don't give any effort to it" I know is akward for both of us tho.

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Mid-Game issues as usual.

Transitioning seems to be the most difficult part of game for most guys.

It's what you transition with should be the bigger question.

Whenever you speak about something of passion; you'll naturally have longer chats on that subject.

Since all of us on this forum are. Aspiring PUA, PUA's or PUA coaches, it'd be logical to assume that pickup is a passion of ours.

Why not transition and routine stack to the subject of the PUA community?

Guys are scared shit of talking to the HB they're chatting up about the community!

Women are intrigued by pickup!

This will be your greatest opportunity to DHV and run a DHV story when you talk about pickup.

The how and when is very simple: when you stall in convo and run out of things to say, talk about pickup as a crutch and a life-saver for the set.

Check out the video of me below explaining this concept which is totally relative to your situation.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fSHpLL3Bi9A[/youtube]

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And along the same thinking of socialkenny, if you're asking questions, it is important to ask questions that reveal her passions. The first option of asking her where she works, where she lives, what uni course she's studying, where she used to live and then...erm... running out of questions isn't much good. However, asking her about her passions opens far more doors.

If needs be, ask her one of those 'boring' questions above, but work on the answer. Ask her if she likes whatever job she tells you, or if she likes the area etc. Then you can eventually get to the route of what your dream job is and why, or where she's most like to live and why, and that sort of thing can have you talking for ages.

You probably do suck if you talk that badly about yourself. I suggest you reinvent yourself with a more positive inner voice.