Hey guys, workhorse here.

I've been texting this girl I've had some interest in for the past few months now. She recently broke up with her boyfriend so decided to really pursue her. Using all PUA techniques I knew, I began to shoot her negs, push pull, and gave her some IOI's that she responded positively to. I've also been asking her some thought provoking questions that get her mind racing. All the progress seems to be positive, but I can't seem to break through. She leaves IOI's and when I discontinued the conversation, she will text me the next day so I have an idea thy she's interested. But this is only SOMETIMES. Other times I find myself putting in too much of an effort and it seems to be turning her off. It's tough to ignore her and ask as the
Prize like I should. I recently asked her to meet me to eat somewhere and she blew me off.

Do I ignore her from now on and wait for her to make the next move? She has showed me strong IOI's yet ignores me as well, confuses me a lot. In person, I have no trouble landing girls, but texting is where I have the problem.

Need suggestions! I've been warned about "one-itis" and certainly don't want it to happen either.

Any help is appreciated.

Thanks!

-Workhorse

This is why I don't like texting except as a means to meet up in person. There is no body language or tone in a text, so its hard to show confidence and game it right. Some guys have different theories on this and have really solid text game, but I'm not big into this. You turn a girl on in person, not through an electronic message.


When you say she totally blew you off, did she ignore you or did she explicitly say no?

Just ignored, didn't text back. Trust me, I dislike texting too, but it seems like it's becoming more and more common. Like I said, I can close the deal in person, I just need a date!

if you just need a date, text her something like "id like to see you again, how about lunch/dinner on _____" .... if she doesn't respond, move on. If she does, set the plans for the date and work her in person.

I disagree. You are much better off not making it a "date". Hey, I am going to go... they have really cool, interesting, freaky whatever, it would be neat to show you. I'll be there...