Sorry for this being long! Heres the deal. I am 22 years old and i dont consider myself ugly by any means, I would say I am average looking except for my height (im only 5'5"). I have never been the kind of guy to be able to pick up girls for some reason, im also very picky when it comes to girls. Anyways I met a girl in my class and we exchanged phone number and all that. We didnt start hanging out until this semester,we have gone on like 2 or 3 dates. Maybe I am looking too much into it, but everytime we have hungout im always the one to ask her what shes up too and if she says nothing ill see if she wants to go grab some drinks. She doesnt really text or call me, I call or text her. We are going to a concert this weekend and i bought her ticket for her, she asked me how much it was and I said not to worry about it, its on me! She "no no no you better tell me how much" but i still didn't tell her. I was wondering if maybe these are signs shes not interested in me and just wants to be friends or whats going on? Also I would like to know after the concert and i drop her off at her house what is an appropriate way to end the night and what should i be doing throughout the night to get her to like me! Thanks guys, its much appreciated!

- The fact that you are the one who always initiates is not a problem or a sign of her disinterest. You are the man so you should initiate.

- That she is hanging out with you and has agreed to multiple dates is a sign of her interest. She is interested, but probably waiting for you to make a move.

- My best advice for this concert is to take charge and show her a good time. By that I mean, dont say things like "do you want a drink?" say "lets go get a drink" and then grab her hand and bring her there. Your interests are first and hers are in a close second. Don't say things like "Are you having a good time?" You should assume she is having a good time since she is with you and you are fun cool dude. That is the mindset. One key thing you can do for bonus points is to talk with the people around you. Show her that you are comfortable around others and are a social person.

- as for what to do after the concert, dont think that far ahead. if she has a good time at the concert and you do these things right, you'll be able to close. Its like your fourth date.