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Can I ask what is a cool way to handle it if you're out with a hot girl and other guys are whistling at her etc.
Or if your at a table at a cafe and another guy pays her a compliment right in front of you etc?
When your out with HOT women that will ALWAYS happen from time to time.
EXPECT IT. If you start dating hot women, other men will hit on them, GUARANTEED. It's part of life, man. You must expect that it's going to happen and not be surprised when it does.
The best thing you can do in one of these situations is what you do BEFORE it ever happens... and it's a combination of things:
Realize that there's nothing to be insecure and jealous about, and that these things only lead to fear and loss.
Get your game in shape with women. Get yourself to the point where you can meet women in ANY situation. This way you always know DEEP DOWN that if any woman you're with ever decides to leave, you can turn around and start meeting women. This eliminates insecurity.
Mentally prepare. Take some time to imagine that you're in one of these situations, and notice the feelings you have. Go over it in your mind until you can think about it without having any negative emotions triggered.
When it does happen....
Learn how to have FUN with it. Most guys have no game at all...and it's kind of funny to watch and listen to them. I like to watch it happen, because they FAIL miserably in most of the time. I like to wait until a guy is finished trying to pick up the girl I'm with, and then get her to share the details so I can laugh.
Even suggest that she date the dude. Say something like "Hey, you guys would make a cute couple...I think you should go for him." Of course, this is all said in a funny way.
If you suspect that the girl you're with is actually TRYING to make you jealous, talk to other women! That will stop that shit in it's tracks!
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