Apologies as I am new to this forum if this is the wrong place but I had some text game with a HB7 which hopefully will lead to a F-close this weekend.
The convo went something like this(trying to remove irrelevant info):
Her: How's the plenty of fish hunt going? x
Me: It's good, I am happy on my own and I can't seem to find a mature woman I can have a decent conversation with x (Trying to get her to qualify herself to me)
Her: Yeah I was on there in February and I got fed up and took my profile down due to people not being able to hold a conversation (Qualifier)
Me: It seems a lot are desperate and clingy on there and I can't be dealing with that. (Making me seem like a man in demand and further pushing for a qualifier)
Her: Finding someone with a like-minded attitude is hard. I think I will give up and stay single (Trying to qualify herself again)
Me: I think it's the best way, no ties, no commitment. The only thing I miss is a bit of female company but other than that I am more than happy on my own. (Planting the idea of a F-buddy type scenario without coming on to her)
Her: Female company? Is that the naughty kind of company?
(seems interested)
Me: Yes and no, it's not all about sex but part of it for sure. I tried a fuck buddy last year but I've found no woman can do it as they always want feelings attached or they say they are ok but then want a relationship 2 weeks later. (Making me seem desirable to other women, and being very clear with her on my intentions)
Her: I have the other issue where guys get upset when I tell them I don't want anything serious (Qualifying herself to me)
Me: Sounds tricky, why do they get upset? (Still not biting on her advances)
Her: I miss male company
They want a relationship but I don't (her initiative)
Me: Are you being naughty?
Someone speaking my language... (Time to step it up)
Her: I guess I was being a little naughty, where have you been hiding all this time dammit lol (She seems keen)
Me: Showing a whole new side to you, I like it
when are you free? (Going for the close)
Her: You're making me blush
When were you thinking? (Bingo)
We've exchanged a few more texts and we're both going to a party on Friday and she has agreed to come back to mine after. I would say it's 75% a done deal as she has told me she isn't on any birth control etc.
I suppose the reason for the post was to see if you guys thing the text game was any good - it seems to have done the trick! I know I can't count my luck just yet but it seems like it could be good. Anything you would have done differently?
CHAT