Hey guys... I need some serious feed back. I started going to this University in my home town. I was in the military, so I'm older and not straight out of high school. I have an on going study relationship with another student, who is HB7.5...

Initially, she showed interest and I immediately responded by arranging study dates, she accepted and everything went well. Before our first exam I told her that if I failed I was going to ditch her and find a new study partner, jokingly of course. She assured me that I wouldn't find a better study partner.

I took that as another indicator to keep whatever relationship we had to keep going.

We both got A's on our first test, I missed one question... she missed two.

I have class with her every day, I caught myself approaching her a few days in a row after class, just to shoot the breeze before we go separate ways to other classes. Some days I don't even acknowledge her because I don't want her to think I'm too interested.

I feel like there's a slight formality or a bit of tension when I have brief interactions with her. I want to make her more comfortable around me, I think it has to do with the age gap... she knows I'm quite a bit older than her and I don't think she's ever had a guy my age show interest in her. I feel like she doesn't know how to respond, maybe I'm already indefinitely in her friend zone.. I'm not sure.

We are going to continue our study sessions this week and next because we have another exam coming up. We've also bounced e-mails off each other and I'm going to tell her about an easy two hours of community service that I'm going to next week, and tell her she should join me (she'd be stupid not to, and it's like a sure way to get her isolated from off campus so I can build rapport with her).



Is there any way I can test the waters to see if she's at all interested? She's shown me indicators, but other days she seems distant. It's hard for me to judge.

Oh, another thing I wanted to ask is... I know I need to work on Kino escalation. I'm not trying to get her into bed immediately or anything... but I would like to put my arm around her even if it's only briefly.. like you do with your bromigos, but I don't know... if she was like 3-4 years older I would have no problem doing it. The age gap is just so large for my experience that I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable.

Dont' worry about what she feels. You're the man, you're the alpha male. Lead and she will follow.

You need to kino escalate. From your post she's showing massive IOIs. The next stage is kino escalation, BT spike and comfort. It's your move, she's waiting for you (even if she doesn't know it consciously) to take the next step.
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May I ask just exactly what age the two of you are? It'll surley help putting things in context..

I'm currently working on a younger HB 8,5 myself.. At first I wasn't aware of the age difference tho.. But it turned out she was 16 (I'm 20).

But I'm pretty sure I've got it all handeled now, and I'd love to help you out!

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Oh good, I finally received some feed back!

I am 25, she is 18. I talked with her today after class, I explained to her that I know she needs more community service hours and that I'm going again next Tuesday. I told her she should come, and I gave her a specific time 6:45 to meet me on campus so we can walk to the food shelter down town together and get there by 7. She said she wants to go and she told me to remind her.

We also have a test next Wednesday and we are going to spend time studying tomorrow as well as next Tuesday.

So I see her tomorrow, study tomorrow.... then I won't see her all weekend, I have class with her Monday, then I will basically spend half a day with her next Tuesday, I want to make serious progress by the end of that day. I think if I can't make something happen by next Tuesday I should just move my attention on other girls.

bump

Well, you should definitely try to escalate Kino when it's just the two of you.

After you've built up some Kino, just go for the k-close!

The best way to know foe sure whether this is something worth pursuing, is to go for it and see what happens! Just mind your game up to that point. Let me know how it goes

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Hi Spirit,

I am totally new here, and I am actually here for a similar but different question. This girl is a 9 for sure, 19 and on campus. I am 30, much older and I have already been with her...and want more...(I will probably add this story in another post to get some advice from the pick up gurus here)...

My advice to you, don't be afraid...take her out...make it lots of fun (not boring old stuff)...and close her at the end of the night by playing with her, being cocky and funny,etc (sorry, not familiar with the PUA terms yet)...

Hope this helps, and good luck...

mind talking in PM ash-mid, would like to pick your brain for a few

No Sweat spirit, PM me...
Just note that I am not a PUA...just have some experience with young girls...not the best, as you will see my post here...

Damn ,I am too new here to add a pm, but I have a post here in mid-game called

'Need the pro PUAs help...where do I stand...'

What's in your favor:

1. You're a senior in the university. Females are attracted to older men for reasons you're probably aware of.

2. You have a good rapport with her so far.

3. You have study sessions together which gives you plenty of time to build kino.

What's against you:

1. Your fear of the friendzone.

Usually when dealing with a younger woman, you need to keep it in mind that you can get them to chase you with relatively lesser difficulty as compared to an older woman/woman your age. Also, being TOO nice to them in situations where normally you wouldn't have been as nice, just because they're younger, is a mistake. It might, on rare occasions, be a good idea to be sweet to them to show
modesty and the fact that you have enough with you to "give". You want to escalate and be the one she fucks, not the one she uses as an ID because she's 16.

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Honestly just ask her to hang out at your dorm/apartment/house, wherever you live. Tell her to come over and watch a movie with you, then get close and cuddle with her. When the moment presents itself just kiss her. In college it's really easy. Girls want a man who knows what they want and is confident, and with the age difference you have on her it should be really easy.

It was a couple of weeks ago that I originally posted this. I'm still interested in this girl, but I am not sure how interested in me she is. I know she replies to my texts, although they are always shorter than my texts to her. I do not just text her for the fuck of texting, I text her with purpose and it's like always related to one of our classes. I confronted her the other day and mentioned how I thought she was giving me the fuck off vibe after I thought she flaked at meeting me somewhere... she said she was waiting or w/e and we just missed each other, idk. I made her laugh with the fuck off vibe comment and she assured me she doesn't feel uncomfortable around me but there's definitely an awkwardness between us. I know I did something wrong I'm just not sure what. I know she is religious and I'm unsure if she's ever even had a boyfriend or serious relationship, I think she's a virgin and afraid to get too familiar with me because I am 7 years older than she is.

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