Hey everyone,

I met this girl at the club. It wasn't on the dance floor, we were both with our friends by the bar and i walked by and spotted this beauty and just had to initiate.

The things she said throughout the night immediately showed me she was looking for a relationship, but whats more disturbing is I can't shake how obvious it is that she is not only looking for a relationship but for marriage. She is looking for a faithful guy that will date her for however long and then ask her hand in marriage.

I'm 22, she is 25.

It is so much to take in, because I still party and smoke weed and I am in a Fraternity. I live with roommates (BROS) while she interns at a law firm ( she still in school), lives alone, and watches HGTV. (home and garden tv)

But anyways, what i'm going to say next might sound very ironic ( it did for me).

She is black, and she is THICK and SEXY. I immediately knew she had a lot of insecurities and probably has been cheated on in the past. I feel that she was confortable with me and let her guard down. I LOVE smashing thick booty and I have a thing for older women. But I have never dated or had sex with a black women before.

During that night in the club, i managed to get her into my car, and she kept on saying " we are not hooking up" and she said it with smiles which I know to mean shes feeling it but don't want to come off slutty. The next day, now i realized i might get a lot of flake for this, but i told her to come over to my place and hang out for a bit and she did ( she knows where i live now....) . When she came over, we made out and i got to suck on some big tits but she kept on turning down my escalations. Then she says something really quickly and I think it was " i can be very nasty" and still kept on saying we are not hooking up, but again with a smile. I was thinking about texting her directly and say " do you like anal".

I need some help here guys, i know im not really asking for anything concrete but I need the community's feedback. I might be able to commit, but right now my main focus is smashing that ass and... guys help me out here.

Thanks All