Right now i've been hanging out with this Russian dancer, she's here to learn english and we have a lot in common from reading the same books, to movies and hobbies, we're getting really close. She normally doesn't open up to anyone (Everyone hits on her) but I think it's our natural commonalities that make us relate to each other.

I work executive protection and private security, (the guys with the earpieces and suits) and I figure she's very comfortable with her body being a dancer--so every time we hang out I teach her something from my trade--usually how to fight and she loves it. We're getting very hands on. What i'd like advice on is how to escalate from teaching and practicing combatives and her teaching me how to dance (she's very comfortable around me touching her already) to more intimate and sexual contact. Please throw your Ideas out there, I could really use em'.

We worked out tonight, learning technique, we meditated. She punches like a damn man... Our relationship is still teacher-student. She really enjoys her time with me, but she's not showing me ioi's, ok well we laugh, we hug, lot's of touching, we get a lot of alone time but I'm not able to initiate sexual tension. When I pull her close like TonyKing mention's she's intent and focused, (rejection?) not--showing me her "do me" eyes.

I need to initiate attraction, I genuinely have fun with this girl and she loves when i'm teaching kung fu or us hanging out, but instead of instruction I should focus on more sexual kino. (Ideas?) Normally i'm blunt with girls I can feel them eyeballing me after getting to know them for a few minutes and simply tell them to kiss me. I'm not doing something right here.

I'll fill you guys in on new developments. In the meantime any advice is appreciated.

Use more than "JF" touches when you are touching her. Touch her mid lower back, neck, and cheeks. Keep strong eye contact with her. Slow your speech down and insert slight pauses. Display your interest in her! Slow your speech down and insert slight pauses. Display your interest in her! When close and looking into each others eyes, give her the triangle look and allow a slow slight smile to creep onto your face.

These are things that can be thrown in. The triangle look will highly raise the sexual tension levels.

Be ready for her question of, "What?" This is a pretty common question which if the interest is there she will usually blink lightly when she says it, with a slight smile, and it will typically be spoken in a soft voice. These make for a HUGE IOI.

If it is bad sounding what and she kind of pulls away from you I would back off a little bit. It is all about pushing and pulling.

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Thank you for the advice.