It was my first day of collage and I haven't had a girlfriend before, so I been trying to set myself up, I saw this one girl who had kinda nerdy glasses but she was kinda cute sitting a few chairs away from me, we had class at first I came in late because I was in the wrong room at first, I was very involved with interacting with the teacher while most people were half asleep. We have like 2 class periods one in one room, we had a break, and then one in the other, the reason I confused the classes at first actually, the girl in the cute glasses was standing in front of me, I asked her name, where shes from, just a bunch of getting to know someone stuff, and she seemed interested in talking to me, and when class started again I sat by her, I didn't say anything particularly flirtatious, it seemed like it wasn't proper to do if we weren't acquainted at all, I have class every week, I think I should start outright flirting with he next time but im not sure how to approach it, she told me she was going for 3d animation, and she was drawing a picture when I was their, perhaps I could use that to get talking to her again perhaps use it to make a neg? Like perhaps "I like my art generally darker in style" or something in that nature?

Don't know much, just wouldn't neg her about something she's very passionate about, especially if she's actually nerdy and doesn't have high self-esteem. My two cents. (imo negging is overrated unless you need to break through defense, which you obviously don't seem to need)

yeah man. just try to be nice with her. you don't really need to use a lot of PUA techniques on her. Be yourself, do not neg yet.

Dont neg about her art!
Im an artist and i get real anal when
Someone disrespects my pieces. U leave a part
Of urself in every drawin painting ect.

They say artist ate insecure..i am.
So idk maybe compliment her piece, just
To get her to notice u then from there on
Do what u gotta do.

Dont neg about her art!
Im an artist and i get real anal when
Someone disrespects my pieces. U leave a part
Of urself in every drawin painting ect.

They say artist ate insecure..i am.
So idk maybe compliment her piece, just
To get her to notice u then from there on
Do what u gotta do.

On our 3rd day at school I did a lot of talking with her, sat by her, and was around her pretty much all the time we were at class and out in the hall, I seem to get kinda confused with her non verbal communication sometimes, I think she might be focusing on drawing during those times and focusing on that, however it usually comes across to me as lack of interest and kinda messes up my game, but anyway I complimented her once on her glasses making her look cute and she didn't give much feedback on that just kinda said oh and didn't hear me right away (I think cause she was focused on drawing), but we worked together in group and read essays about ourself, I felt like I made a mistake when I was with the group of girls and showed as much insecurity in myself as all of them did when we read our essays and feedback, but when we switched classes we were talking together and as my essay had stated my troubles with trying to work through my a.d.d. she had stated how she had a.d.h.d. and related with me, I talked a bit about animation, and cartoons we liked, then went back and sat by her second period, we were being instructed so we wern't talking, then at the end of class I left right away cause I had to go to the bathroom, but when I was going to leave, I saw her on a chair drawing and at first I went up to talk to her, and I wasn't sure if I wanted to ask her to hang after class but I tried talking to her, I should have thought of what I was going to do cause I choked at first and she asked "what?" and I pulled myself to say well I was wondering what you do after class, and she said well I go home now, so at this point freaking out at my previous blunder I just said ok bye as I walked off, so Im not really sure if that came off as weird or what but, Im just wondering what I should do next class since I don't want to get friend zoned, I think I came up a notch from last time on the flirtiness level, but I don't really know how quickly I should advance.