So i went to this dance/club and approached this cute girl and her friends. I got her number within like 2 min. and then left when the party ended. I didn't have time to talk to her much or even tell her my name at the party.
I text her that night briefly and then 2 days later i had a long flirty conversation over text messaging during witch i asked her to come to the hot tub with me. she did and while we were there i made small talk with her a little and when more people showed up i made small talk with them.
This is where i failed. I just couldn't escalate. the only thing i did do right is make sure i didn't stay silent, but we covered just about every small talk topic in the book. after word i walked her to her car and said goodbye. I Approached when i got her number, and i attracted her wile i was texting her with clever negs and witty texts. but in person i could not seem to build any rapport of flirt at all. A hot tub for me was a challenging place to build a meaningful conversation. can someone help me out?

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