So I went out to a abnormally crowded place, walking was only possible if you pushed everyone aside.
It has it's pro's and it's cons.
For example, when pushing through the crowd some girls just randomly sandwich you, which ofcourse is positive. I got a lot of people stepping on my shoes, so that's a small con.

Club game is all about fun. Fuck anyone who says you need to act cool and pretend like your the boss. Just drink, maybe not too much, and have a fucking good time!

So that was what we did, drank some rum and went out!
We danced a lot, talked to some random girls and ended up just having fun with everyone around us.

There was this incredibly cute girl eyeing me and forcing IOI"s out of me, like smiling or pointing.
Ofcourse we opened, talked about really dumb funny shit. She was sarcastically telling me how ugly she was and I responded with sortlike shit.
When you don't know what to say anymore, I heard it's best to just look another way and look cool, so that's what I did. She immediately went like dance-hopping in the vinicity of 3 meters of me, where there ofcourse were guys talking to her. I didn't really care so I just remained to stand still and look cool.

Then she walked away again, walking past me so I grabbed her lightly. I said something about eye contact and she immediately hold eye contact in a funny way so we talked again. I thought she was into me for sure, but then she turned her face away, LIKE I WAS GOING TO KISS HER. Which I was not trying.

And when we were leaving I searched for her for a second, then said: 'Hey I'm leaving, this is your last chance.' She responded with: BYE :)! I again: 'Your last chancee huh!' Again: BYE :)!

So I don't know if that was a shit-test for not asking her number, but I smiled and pinched her.


Well this was more for myself to see what I was doing wrong. I don't know many kissing routines that fit my personality. I just try to say some funny or hot shit, then go for the kiss. So if you got some cocky and funny/cool kissing routines, let me know.

If you see any more tips on how to improve and step up my game, it's certainly appreciated.

G

If the kino escalation is good and she is obviously attracted to you then kissing shouldn't be any kind of big thing, it should just be a natural evolution from what you were doing. So maybe working on kino escalation would be the way to go about it.

Also in your position I wouldn't say 'I'm leaving, this is your last chance' as this puts the ball in her court and 90% of women I don't think would kiss you as they have to instigate it which rarely happens.

I would say, right I'm off now, look into her eyes for a couple of seconds before kissing her. But I hate kissing someone for the first time as a kiss goodbye, I think it looks weak and it's what loads of guys do. I like to be a stand out.

A line I've tried a couple of times which works nicely if there is good attraction and rapport is to pause the conversation, look into her eyes (to build sexual tension) and then say, 'Am I going to get lipstick/gloss on my face if i kiss you'. Then she will reply, yes, no, or whatever, but you will be able to fully gauge where she stands from this and almost certainly k-close.

Hope to have helped.

Damn you really are the Infiltrator.

As the balls in her court, very true.
I was a little drunk though but it was really a stupid thing to say.
But then again, I did NOT want to come across as needy, like really wanting her number.

Pff fuck it all, when you're in state and playful, you can always think off something.
I guess I really wanted this girl, and that fucked all the playfulness up...


That's a fcking great line/kiss routine by the way, girls always need that one little useless line to make them comfortable. I can totally imagine this line right now...

An easy way to not come across as needy is to walk away, dance with other girls, and visibly have a good time without her, and then when you next talk to her in the club, you can be a little be more forward because you have shown her that you don't need her to have a good time, but are choosing to have a good time with her.

In terms of number closes I will usually just hand the girl my phone when I'm leaving and they just type it in without me having to ask.

Also I appreciate the praise.