BACKSTORY: About 2 years ago I asked this girl out from work after finding out she had the hots for me. She said yes. SHe cancelled the date but met me at the pub for drinks then went for a drive. Most I ever got out of her was some making out. Anyway she started drifting back to her ex bf. I got all needy and clingy cos I was an idiot. Anyway gave up with ehr after she kept being interested, then freezing me out when I got needy blahblahblah.

2 Years later.

I have just returned from a year of university. I have recently broken up with my year old gf. My self-respect and ego has increased much more and being able to sense when girls are trying to get reactions out of you has also increased. Anyway basically I got transferred back to my old store. This girl now works even closer to me.

(She still has douchebag boyfriend)

As soon as I walked in she stated that I looked different, more confidence and looked fitter. This kind of thing keeps constantly happening, she keeps bumping into me, flirtatious shit like stealing my shit till I grapple her. Two things happened recently:

1) I started a convo with her about regrets. I mentioned not being man enough to keep a girl called Julia interested. She kept being all secretive till she said her biggest regret was not sleeping with me when she had the chance.

2) On her department I have a close female friend who flirts with me and I flirt back. Its a constant joke we have going on, she has a boyfriend and she helps me out with the girls I like to game. We even chat about games I run and shit. Anyway, mindfuck girl has been becoming more noticably jealous every time me and this other girl flirt. To the point where she asked me if I fancied her, I laughed at her "haha no, its just a bit of fun"

3) She gives me lifts home every so often and keeps mentioning that her boyfriend gets jealous if she tells him that she has given me a lift home. She tries her little game (I think its a game hopefully im right?)

Her: "Oh I told him that I gave you a lift home last night, he got all jealous and I was just like its only John"

Me: "Awwww thats really sweet of him getting all jealous, shows how much he cares about you and how nice a guy he is. Plus you shouldn't be trusting naughty boys like me anyway"

Exactly what I want to do man, only problem I have at the moment is that the only place I see her is work. She doesn't go out clubbing anymore and she has quite a bad diabetes problem which could also count towards her mood swings.

From past experience everytime I start something she gets into her "ignory mood" so she can try and get more attention out of me. I did a text opener with her after she put my number in my phone after not having it for 2 years.

Me: Hey, hows my favourite little brat doing today?

her: Who is this?
her: Alex?

Me: Yup however you've now made the letdown list.

-no text back-

As soon as I saw her, she brought the texts up and why didn't I text her again. I just said "Woah, texts cost time. Like 5 seconds...thats a shitload of time!"

That could work, Il have to try it out. Shes cool with going up to a spot in my area called the hill where theres a burger van that overlooks the city.

However loads of guys have done this before with her and I think its a way she snares people into these mindfuck traps. When I got back she had a guy mindfuck trapped, he kept telling me to tell her to text him back, kept coming in to see her when it wasn't his shift/he had already been in to do his shit. Gave her money, he's clicked now and back with his ex. Was a nice external view of it tho so I could review what NOT to do.

Still gotta wait a week a half till I get paid, skint!

Sure is man, TK is it cool if I PM you with another problem? its pretty short and really only needs 1 opinion.