this is gonna sound dumb --

but what's the easiest way to get the girl to sit closer to you when you guys are on the couch? some girls do this naturally but some girls are a little more shy. what's the best way to get them to sit right next to you so your knees are almost touching -- providing you already have rapport?

thnx players!

good question. i think u just move closer to them. move close enough that u can still with both your own knees touching. then slowly spread then so its touching hers if she flinches back up if not proceed

Well..what i did was. I invited this girl over to watch a movie.. It was ' Friends with benfiets' She had told me before that movie makes her want to have sex.

So, she came over and she was on one couch and i was on the other.. We were just watching the movie.. Till i ' Pretended' to fall asleep.. She threw a pillow at me and ' woke me up' then she said " move over, im sitting next to you to make sure you dont fall asleep' We sat really close, then i grabbed her hand and held it, she squeezed my hand back.. IOI

i was rubbing her leg then went in for the kiss.. we made out, then i whispered in her ear ' Lets take this to my room'

Led her upstairs and did the job that man was created to do

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great responses --

bear -- that was a good gambit for that scenario, but what about more casual scenarios?

king -- maybe i'm a wimp, or maybe i like the idea of a girl coming to me without me coming to her, but what's an alpha way of saying "sit close to me" without being so obvious. i'm trying to be subtle yet cool.

great responses again -- keep them coming please =)

then you're gonna have to get over your wimpness. unless she's really outgoing or really likes you she's not gonna make the first move. trust me my way is guaranteed to get some contact without seeming too creepy