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Okay shit hit the fan, today i came to work and her family (mother, aunt, sister etc) were yelling at my boss. She is not allowed to come to work anymore. I tried calling her and normally she picks up, but it went to voicemail. What to do now? I really like this girl.
Seems so far you have only dealt with female family membres, once the men get involved. She probably just comes to work for work and non sexual company.You shouldnt put her in a uncomfortable position where she has to choose. Your making her life a misery by denying her the chance to work in a advance from males free environment. Even if that was not your original intention.
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I kissed a colleague today. We were kissing when we were alone during the day away from the rest of the crew but when I wanted to kiss her on the way back home she said she had broken her fast and didnt want to kiss untill the end of Ramadan? She is muslim. Did I do something wrong, is she experiencing buyer's remorse? What should I do? I'm okay with waiting 11 days for her untill Ramadan is over but I don't want to be held on a string if she is just using it as an excuse.
Did you do some October Man Sequence ? . The girl has taken a decision to fast and hold solidarity with the poor and hungry and you decided to kiss her.Yes kissing does break your fast, if your purposely break your fast you have to fast for 40 days .
Its not buyer's remorse its realisation of falling short on your own standards and making a mistake which cannot be undone and may be associated in the form of bad reputation with you amongst your family and friends for life.
the whole idea of PUA, is to get girls who treat guys like sh*t or are all stuck up.Getting 30 girls in 30 days thats the aim. Practising Muslim Girls are not in the business of using guys or flirting with them. Practising Muslim girls dont look for Alpha Males they look for practising muslim Husbands who have mutual interests, they also look at the males family because marriage in Islam is the union of two families not just individuals . Forget about her and move onto a non muslim or 'non practising muslim'
You dont stop being a muslim after 11 days.Ramadhan is like Christmas.You are suppose to behave the entire year the way you did in Ramadhan.
No point using all the different patterns and techniques just to get with a girl for a few days then move on.When you can get 5 girls with less effort. You will be asking that girl to make a huge commitment,which you have no intention of sticking too no matter what you think now during Phase 1 of lust.
They say the best way to quit smoking is throw all the cigarettes out of the house.If you continue to pursue her she will take the drastic option of ditching work possibly forever so she can continue to follow values she believes will make her a better person and are important to her.You will be responsible for that deterioration in her standard of living and freedoms.
If you genuinely like her,then move on and forget her.Dont make her go through a painful process of
self doubt,
choosing between her values and you ,
guilt and
pressure and
internal family friction
If you want tips on moving on from a girl they exist on this site.Basically they involve getting another hobby and cutting all communications. Love does not exist but can be manufactured with most people. Making a girl choose between faith and work is very unethical and will lead you down
a long heart breaking process dragged over months possibly years where eventually she
will pick her faith over you.
You should just say to your boss you got caught up in the moment and you just want a platonic relationship.Otherwise you are looking at harassment and stalking lawsuits if it continues.
Women Enjoy Sex is the PUA theory, you just have to connect with them
Religious girls of all faith only have sex with husbands, and you have to make a lifelong commitment
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