I'm an outgoing, flirty and charismatic guy. But sometimes i feel like i have difficulty indicating my sexual intentions. For as long as I've been interested in PUA, opening was always easy. But from that point on, the girls who i like the most ( not one-its )have always become the best friends. Until now, I'd never closed on a close friend. Basically what I'm asking, is: What kind of things do i need to do/ say to communicate my sexual intentions with a girl, i.e. that i want to fuck her, without looking like a disgusting pervert.

Thanks for all responses guys!

One word....KINO

You are staying in the comfort phase wayyy to long. You are making girls feel TOO comfortable around you. You dont want a girl to feel like she is with her "best friend" or gay best friend when she is with you. That is a one way ticked to the friend zone. You MUST escalate. Get to the seducer mode, start talking about more sexually connected topics, ask her what is her wildest fantasy, break the touch barrier. You have to escalate. That's the problem, you are staying stuck in comfort mode. You must spice up the sexual tension by kino and getting more sexual. I will have a blog post on escalation soon.

You'll be fine man just start escalating. I use to have issues escalating. Yes, you do risk losing her by trying to escalate(hopefully this doesn't happen because you lead up to that point, and not just try to touch her like a psycho) I realized this and started going for it once i seen the signs of interest. I begin slowly escalating.


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Go hard or go home. Being a fitness professional, I got mad girls admiring my aesthetics. Technically it's easy to get on a physical subject with a girl. Time to time, I like to say, "Yo, you like to workout? We can workout together... HORIZONTALLY" then I'll give them my creepo stare (it's my frame and Im congruent with it) and then say, "You like Yoga/Pilates?" Talk about that topic for a while and then be like "TANTRIC YOGA/PILATES?"

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LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL HAHAHAHAA:DDDD ***** "Yo, you like to workout? We can workout together... HORIZONTALLY" then I'll give them my creepo stare******* UR A JOKER! rate u man


BUT what if you cant get the girl escalated bcuz of the inabilaty to meet in person??? ive got a good rapport with her and all but shes*busy* all the time and now she keeps giving me dead air! she loosing intrest and sooo am i! most of our convos r on text and now im soo bored... we talked about tongue piercings once and how theyre better in sex but thats pretty much we had on the subject of physical stuff:((

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A mind once opened never closes.. same with legs;D

IMO, escalation can only be built in person unless she straight up DTF anyway.
If you can get a girl to feel comfortable talking about sex, you're almost there. Now get used to touching her and vice versa and get Kino going.

When I'm out and I meet girls, I don't shake hands. I rather open up my hand to theirs and try to interlock fingers. This is my compliance test. If they lock back, I know they're receptive. If she tried to force a handshake, I go as palm up as possible to force them to go palm down and all dainty like (Much like if you were gong to kiss her hand). ANother step I take it to is holding her hand against my body, near my solar plexus. Mostly so she can feel my rock hard absthetics, but also feel a connection.

Very rarely after such an interaction will a girl flake. She's now too emotionally invested and physically felt that connection.

I myself am trying to pick up more from there. But I feel that once that connection is built, enter her private space and get face to face with her. Any girl willing to put her face that close is asking to be kissed. Once you get the k-close, the #close was nothing (unless she was a drunk mess)

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Right you are but its just that shes now used to texting me rather than acc meeting me LOL my fault indeed:)

Hmm your methods I AM DEFINITELY using from now on, testing her comfort level before interacting is a smart idea in which you cant really get bad reactions/outcomes:D it gives a good indication on which level to start with her:DD

Haha Thanks a bunch dude, helped me alot:D

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P.s make sure it's true XD

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Girls want to fuck attractive guys. Have you proven yourself to be an attractive guy to them before you attempted to escalate? Have you made it seem as if you're interesting and have an attractive lifestyle? I think your problem is that you're attempting to escalate too soon without making yourself come off as the type of guy that she wants to fuck.