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PostPosted: Tue Jul 31, 2012 12:00 pm 
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So there is this HB8,5 career girl.I know her for a long time,met several years ago,never had any dates after etc.
We started talking lately online and she offered to go for a cup of coffee.Met up,great rapport,deep conversations,good general feeling of moving in the right direction.Very-very light kino.
After 2 days I text her asking where is she (geographically so I can decide whether to offer her date or not).Whole day no reply,in the evening "im there and thr enjoying the weather".i replied several hours later " i had fun today there and there.lets meet up in 2 days blabla".2 days after I receive a message "cant make it,sorry bla bla".
It is te longest PNP (101) I have ever got in my life).What do you think?eject the project?


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 31, 2012 4:15 pm 
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So there is this HB8,5 career girl.I know her for a long time,met several years ago,never had any dates after etc.
We started talking lately online and she offered to go for a cup of coffee.Met up,great rapport,deep conversations,good general feeling of moving in the right direction.Very-very light kino.
After 2 days I text her asking where is she (geographically so I can decide whether to offer her date or not).Whole day no reply,in the evening "im there and thr enjoying the weather".i replied several hours later " i had fun today there and there.lets meet up in 2 days blabla".2 days after I receive a message "cant make it,sorry bla bla".
It is te longest PNP (101) I have ever got in my life).What do you think?eject the project?
My guess is you probably didn't spit enough attraction during your first "date". She may only think of you as a friend since you didn't pull any moves nor have heavy kino. Never eject the project, keep going until no response. Persistence is key. Find out logistics first. Ask her what her week is like next week. When she responds with open days, ask her to go out on one of the free days. Have a fun plan in mind for a date. Not just coffee, that's boring, nor dinner. Have something fun.

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 Post subject: Re: Too flaky
PostPosted: Wed Aug 01, 2012 8:19 am 
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So there is this HB8,5 career girl.I know her for a long time,met several years ago,never had any dates after etc.
We started talking lately online and she offered to go for a cup of coffee.Met up,great rapport,deep conversations,good general feeling of moving in the right direction.Very-very light kino.
After 2 days I text her asking where is she (geographically so I can decide whether to offer her date or not).Whole day no reply,in the evening "im there and thr enjoying the weather".i replied several hours later " i had fun today there and there.lets meet up in 2 days blabla".2 days after I receive a message "cant make it,sorry bla bla".
It is te longest PNP (101) I have ever got in my life).What do you think?eject the project?
My guess is you probably didn't spit enough attraction during your first "date". She may only think of you as a friend since you didn't pull any moves nor have heavy kino. Never eject the project, keep going until no response. Persistence is key. Find out logistics first. Ask her what her week is like next week. When she responds with open days, ask her to go out on one of the free days. Have a fun plan in mind for a date. Not just coffee, that's boring, nor dinner. Have something fun.
You see when a woman is not interested she does not do PNP(101..btw I dont know what is the term you guys use on this board).She just either does not reply or replies straight away with "ljbf kind of stuff".Besides in the country where it happens it is normal to be direct.
So I was glad to see her PNP in a way,it meant she is up to something.

BUT this girl takes WAY to much of negatives in her PNP game.That is what confuses me.More,she includes rich descriptions in her texts (as much as the technology allows,something like"I am in the park enjoying the brilliant weather bla bla") and giving compliments (commenting on my social proof).That what confuses me even more.
First time she took 5 hours to answer the text.second time 2 days!Must admit though that on the day I asked her for a date she replied around 2PM,thus giving me time to arrange something else for the evening.Very polite and thought through.Though she had blown me off.

Wtf is going on,I dont get.


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 05, 2012 11:49 pm 
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Never eject the project. I like that.
I also agree. keep the tension up If it takes baby steps, take baby steps.
dont get disheartend if this girl put out straight away she would still be dripping from the last guy.
also work multiple girls, Im terrable for concentrating on one at a time. It makes me focus but also come off as needy. which is a bitch.

also what the fuck is PNP


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 06, 2012 11:06 am 
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if you hate waiting, call instead of text, you get answers fast, and if they don't pick up, they are busy, same thing can be assumed with texting, if someone texts me during the day, and I'm busy, I won't respond until I'm done, and sometimes I forget, unless it is really super urgent to me that the text has to be responded to

but by the looks of your post, you didn't make anything happen on the date, and she doesn't want a repeat, let the girls know that dating you will lead to sex and fun when they are on the date, and it becomes a little more appealing for them, but if they are bored on the date, and all they see is all talk no action, then that gets you the same in return (except with less talk, but still no action)


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 06, 2012 12:39 pm 
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Hey guys thanks for answering.

I am not new to the game.But I have always been not so sure what is the best way of dealing with such situation.I mean if the girl blows you away after prolonged PNP,thn I dont think you can get her on second date without loosing too much of your value.

Actually I sent her another text yesteday,something like "blabla..let's meet.I have time on tuesday evening".Nothing back so far,pn goes on.


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 06, 2012 1:23 pm 
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Hey guys thanks for answering.

I am not new to the game.But I have always been not so sure what is the best way of dealing with such situation.I mean if the girl blows you away after prolonged PNP,thn I dont think you can get her on second date without loosing too much of your value.

Actually I sent her another text yesteday,something like "blabla..let's meet.I have time on tuesday evening".Nothing back so far,pn goes on.
it goes like this, imagine you are a drug dealer, you want to leave your customers high and wanting more, think of your attention like cocain, DON'T GIVE AWAY THE DAMN COCAIN FOR FREE ON THE PHONE, give them a taste of the drug to get them hooked, then start getting them to invest more if they want more of the product, you can only give it away for free for so long before you are investing too much of your coke into one junkie, at some point you have to start blowing them off when you realize they won't invest enough for a profitable return, why waste time on a junky who isn't willing to pay, and always be looking out for new customers, I mean common, junkies fall on and off the wagon all the time, but if the product is good, THEY'LL BE BACK, you can bet that, don't worry about it, but eventually they got to pay if they want the goods

AND FOR GOD SAKES, BE PROACTIVE ABOUT GETTING THEM TO PAY UP, YOU DON'T WANT SOME JUNKIE HITTING UP YOUR PHONE AT 2AM EVERY NIGHT LOOKING FOR COCAIN TRYING TO GET IT DELIVERED OVER THE PHONE FOR FREE, BUT NEVER WANTS TO ACTUALLY MEET UP AND PAY FOR IT, that shit will drain your bank, and they will just continue getting the drugs when they want them, free of investment and remember you don't need a junkie's money, there will always be more junkies where they came from, be wise about who you waste your cocain on, screen lots of them out good to make sure they got money for the product before you invest your coke into them

when you have a junkie calling you, and you got them waiting and wanting that cocain, it's time to meet up and get your money, cause the junkies buying temp is high, when a junkie starts trying to avoid paying up and is dodging the dealer and talking about rehab this, and rehab that, THATS IT, CUT THAT JUNKIE OFF, YOU DON'T HAVE TIME FOR THAT RE-HAB SONG AND DANCE FOR SOME MORE FREE COKE, meet more junkies that actually are willing to pay for the goods, let them come back around when they want that product bad, but this time, be more careful and straightforward about getting your money up front, that junkie never paid out last time

and think about it, if you are chasing after some poor, haggered out, dirty junky who is all coked out with a big bag of the product but no money left, hounding the same junkie to pay up will do no good, it will just have that little fiend ducking and dodging you, except for when they want some more free product, and that's fine, SPAM that product will bring value to that junkie, they will grow to trust your brand, but give too much away without getting a return investment and you won't turn a profit, cut off the source of the product and the junkie might fear losing their ability to score the drugs, if you sense the desperation, you can work with it, often desperate junkies are willing to pay up more of the time, then junkies that already are already getting the coke from somewhere else and don't need your product


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