This girl and I met at college orientation and became really close and talked a Tom afterwards. We'd send each other huge messages and multiple pages of texts, it was really good. Then I started to try and slow things down a bit (didn't want to talk everyday or seem needy, hasn't worked out well in the past) but a bit after doing this I don't feel like our convos have the same flair and I'm not sure if she has the same interst level. Both of our texts have gotten shorter, especially here, and I was wondering if there was any good way to start to rekindle interest? Ive tried talking more with her (keeping convos going all day and stuff) but I don't feel like the same 14 page text back and forth convo that we used to have.

Any tips?

Remind her of a time you had together except use hypnotic language to entice her emotions into re-experiencing the moment. Make it sound natural and suck her attention in. Push, pull, recall an experience, fluff talk, push, pull, lead.
Then take her somewhere new. Have fun, allow yourself to get lost in the moment. If possible have sex with her to solidify the experience.

If you're really good remain a prize the whole time.

Thanks man. We've only met once (orientation) but will meet again soon when college starts. I've said like remember when we'd spend hours typing 15 page texts and stuff kinda like that I'm not sure if it has really worked though. Anyway, sometime when college starts we are gonna go bowling/minigolfing (made a bet- she thinks she can beat me) and the loser will buy ice cream/smoothies or something for the loser (and themselves). Any idea on how to act here to try and kinda make it into a date or get her to have a lot of interest? Like kino, buy her dessert even if I win or what?

Thanks so much

Any tips?

Sorry about the delay. Seems like you have things under control. Just act natural. I actually think she is very interested, what ever you are doing so far is working.

I just reread what you wrote. Have you slept with this woman? If not that's what you should be moving towards. DON'T make it into a date. Just hang out, have fun, act confident. Control your own state. Eventually bring her somewhere secluded and seduce her.

Thanks! I have only met her once at an orientation so I haven't slept with her or gotten anywhere near that. We're going to school together though, so I'll start to see her a lot. Despite only meeting each other once, we've talked a ton over the internet and text (i've tried to cool it down a lot recently in terms of how frequently so we dont get ljbf) but hopefully I don't get ljbf because I was waiting to make a real move on her when we moved into school.