Okay soo..Saturday i have a friend i have invited out with me. i met her last weekend in the club.

Should i pay? I don't want to, because i don't even know if i want her yet. We are going to a dinner and to catch a movie.

What you guys think?

Just pay. You invited HER out remember? You 2 can argue about paying later on.

Be careful with that, my nigga. A lot of people will say the same thing: If you pay for her things, it makes you seem desperate, like you're putting yourself below her instead of equal. Not very alpha if you ask me... I see it the same way as buying a drink for a girl. Suicide.

Or use your best discretion: Does she have a job? Is she in school? Does she live on her own? If she's poor or doesn't seem like someone with a lot of money, I could see the exception there. Maybe offer to spot her or something... my male friends and I do it all the time. No homo, of course.

Go ahead and pay for her. Be a gentleman.

up to you, doesn't hurt, doesn't really help, she will like you if she likes you, shouldn't be dependant on if you pay or not, if you pay, you might get hussled, or might think you are a gentleman, if you don't pay, might think you are cheap or might have just expected to pay her own way and feels a sense of manipulation for something she was intrinsicly motivated to do in the first place, depends on the girl, the frame (if she thinks you are meeting up as ''friends'', not really reason to pay besides supplication, think of it like if you took a guy ''friend'' out, would you pay for him as well?), etc. etc.

taking a girl on a date is a little different then a girl trying to hussle you for a drink at a bar, or a friend just hanging out with you, but hey it aint trickin if ya got it

Pay for her.....

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I would pay for her

a dinner and movie barely cost anything

Soncheese x