First off, i'm not that interested in this girl. I was just talking to her because its been about 2 years since we met up and we were good friends in high school.

So i'm back and town and meeting with people i havent seen in awhile, heres the exchange. It went cold when i teased her:

me:hey im in town for the weekend. we should catch up, its been too long
her:yeah for sure!! i work until 5 tomorrow so maybe after that?
me:thats good, where do you work?
her:blah blah
me: i shouldve guessed that, i was actually at blank today, didnt you work there?
her:blahh blah
me: well thats good. did they teach you how to play scramble? because you just lost... (its an word game app that weve been playing with each other for the past month or two)
me: (18 hours later) whats there to do in nowadays?
her:no idea haha. i mostly just work and swim
her: i should let you know that i have to be up at 3am to drive to nebraska
me:well i guess thats a no on the slumber party
her:haha yeah...
me:have you ever been frolfing?
her:nope whats that?
me: frisbee golf, ive never been either
her: (no response)
me: (3 hours later) i just got done playing basketball and im pretty tired. maybe another time sorry (makes it seem like she was the one asking to hang out)
her: alright another time. Sorry !

Let me here the insight boys, maybe it was just her. But if it's something i could prevent in the future let me know.

i would definatly say you have done enough cold play, now i would say that you should go out with your friends and then tell her to come along. make sure you tell her to come with, no asking and make sure you dont sound to demanding

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-Leuke

It's hard for me to judge where she went cold based on your write-up of the exchange because you left out what she replied. But basically i dont think your texting is interesting enough here. You were asking her a bunch of unnessesary questions when she obviously wanted to meet you from the start.

My advice is to keep it simple in texts if you're not sure you can get a flowing conversation. After her initial response you could've just written "Coffee at *insert random place in town* after you're done at work" and that would be all.

I didn't leave out any resposnes, that is the entire conversation. I wouldve asked her to meet up after work but i already had plans (playing basketball). I do agree i asked too many questions, its always been hard for me to text girls and get them to talk with more than two word sentences without asking a question or two

me:hey im in town for the weekend. we should catch up, its been too long
her:yeah for sure!! i work until 5 tomorrow so maybe after that?

You could have replied with:
Sure (sweety), let's meet up at *location* around *time*.
Keep it short and with a few texts. The texting goal is to meet up as fast as possible, not to chat with a girl. You can find it all out on the date what you want to know. Avoid being boring.
I know because i always did the same. Trust me.
Also a good one is:

You: random text like: hey/howdy/yo yo yo/ how are you sweety/cutie/muppet/chiquita
her: random response (perhaps with a haha in it)
You: so do you have plans today/tonight/tomorrow...?
Her: yes/no/whatever
You: let's meet up at *location*, ill call you latr for the time sweety/cutie/... - or name other location
Her: probably ok (assume she is available)

That's it. 6 texts in total. Short, simple, funny, interesting and probably a date. Make sure that when u text, she knows immediatly that it's you without mentioning your name

I must admit I was rather disappointed at the end of your post, but after thinking about it carefully, I realized that I am sometimes (yes, to this day) guilty of the very same crimes.

YOUR INTERACTION WAS GREAT! What in the heck are you complaining about? Because she doesnt answer you sometimes? SHES BUSY, you should be busy as well. She agreed to the D2, and you canceled (which is a good thing)... Why are you saying she went cold?

It is rather difficult to guess the state of things over text, I understand, but STOP playing mind games with yourself. Too many times I've seen people become their own worst enemies. STOP overthinking every two words she said. BE A MAN.

It says in you're name that you are supposedly a 'College Natural'. All the naturals I know have ONE thing in common: they do not think, they act. Don't interpret this as them being stupid. They are smart as hell, it takes brains to be good with women, but it most importantly takes balls. Understand: no matter how she reacts = she wants you. No other thought should be in your head.

Here, a little inspiration

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T-NYesCDypA[/youtube]


Listen to PitBull's Lyrics. THAT my friend should be the underlying assumption of your every interaction with a woman. Whatever you feel, she will feel. Man the fk up, take your phone, call her and tell her exactly how you feel.

"YOU. Im taking YOU out. Whatever your plans are, cancel them. We're going on an adventure."

Good luck mate
remember
Fate loves the fearless

TheMack

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