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PostPosted: Thu May 17, 2012 9:53 am 
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Ok thats what it sounds like literally translated, I hope you can do something with that, there is not enough tension/attraction (that's how I see it).

Background Info:
Me: I'm 15 (inless than a month 16)
Her: 18 (If I had to rate her, a solid 9, always gets approached by guys and blows most of them off; she's a party girl and I dont think shes looking for something serious)

We've been meeting when going out since 5 months now, it got more frequently since 3 months or so. We've made out once (a month ago) und Kissed two other times (last week and two months ago). I know I'm moving slow but the circumstances weren't the best if I can say so.

Sooo yesterday was a party which basically none of my people attended except for her and her friends (with whom I get along really well, one especially, shes also the one who I am gonna talk about). That friend told me yesterday that I should go get her and do somethin, because hb9 thinks I'm really cool (she does too, and she's 20 by the way) but it just isn't there yes (the thing with the spark, don't have a better translation really). Wanted to make my move around 12 (I am not a fan of doing this stuff early in the night, doesnt seem right somehow), but then she was with her friends the whole time (and I didn't have my best night either). One of my main problems is, she doesn't react to my Kino, she lets me do it, but there is nothing coming from her side. (she doesn't kino other man as for what I've seen but I am not around her all the time and most of he guys who hit on her in the clubs are just afc's or drunks) Basically the only response I got was when i kissed her last week she said "that I was so sweet" (which isn't exactly where i wanted to go with that).

Long Story short, meeting her again on Saturday, at a venue where I know loads of people (always good, couldn't really dhv myself with girls there because I didn't know a lot of people), and then I need to ramp up my attraction game (that's how I interpret it at least), because right now it's a combination of cocky & funny + kino, and I think I can get this better. (Not a fan of DHV Stories, makes me seem like a tryhard, I only tell funny stories involving me and my friends having a good time). So what tips have you got for attraction guys? :)

cheers

and by the way, is there a good kino step between holding hands and kissing? because the first one is so easy but the second one a lot higher (for me at least).
and also she doesn't hold eye contact when we're close up which makes it even harder for me to go for the kiss.


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PostPosted: Thu May 17, 2012 10:03 am 
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Well in my opinion kino is the best thing for building attraction. With out telling DHV stories or what not (I'm not a fan of that either). You could watch Gamblers Stealth attraction series on Youtube.

I liked some of the stuff he does in that because it seems natural but then other stuff he does isn't natural for me so I just didn't pay too much attention to maybe half of it.

Personally If your holding hands and say going to the dancefloor just before you arrive twirl her around by the hand, pull her in, kiss release, dance and look for an chance to kiss again or apply fun but semi sexy kino during dancing but just don't go too hard out dry humping her leg unless she invited it heh.


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PostPosted: Fri May 18, 2012 11:16 am 
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Gonna try looking at Gamblers videos, seems interesting.
Also am going to try Hand Caressing, completely forgot about that one. If the vibe is right and i can feel/read the attraction your advice seems to be pretty good as well (and its kinda obvious that you shouldn't dry hump anyone on the dancefloor, for me at least :s).

Anyone got something else and/or a response to the whole not looking me in the eye or returning kino (which I think comes from the lack of attraction).

I think i'm gonna try sweeping her off her feet and moving the whole thing really fast (got one or two routines prepared if they fit for the situation), because I'm gonna see her pretty late anyways (around 12), maybe gaming other girls in the meantime. (which is fairly easy in comparison to her :s).

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