I could really use some help with these issues while going to clubs solo. I have ran into several situations, where a girl i'm gaming is very into me but eventually she'll say, "hey, dance with my friend". maybe because her friend is not having as much fun. I've had mixed results when I accept or reject that request. Many times when I accept and start dancing with the friend, some other guy swoops in on my girl like a vulture and it become near impossible to try to get her back. There are rare chances that she would say no to the guy, but it doens't always happen.

When I say no to her request, alot of times the girl would get mad or the friend would just cockblock me eventually because she is jealous. For instance I can give a direct confident response saying "No, I'm attractive to you, so I want to dance with you tonight". That could resolve this "test" from her, but her friend could later cockblock me because of jealousy. Its like damned if I do, damned if I don't.

Another question is, even if the girl is into me, e.g. bumping and grinding me with me on the dance floor, after the song is over, she could become uncomfortable when she doesn't see her friends. The girl would say "I need to find my friends", what should I do in that situation. Should I help her find her friend or try to distract her?

In the first situation I dance (or sort of dance, meaning I entertain them both so my target won;t get lost and her friend is happy) with them both at once.

Although I'm pretty new to this PUA thing in my opinion it is best to also involve the girlfriend in your game in an early stage. Dance with her, maybe even better; dance with both girls at the same time. Talk to her, get her interested in you, so she will like you and not see you as a guy (or even a freak) who wants to run off with her friend and leave her standing by herself. When the girlfriend likes you she feels more comfortable to leave you alone with her friend and she will approve a lot quicker when you try to isolate the girl you are hitting on.

Maybe it is not the best way to k-close or even more, but you can definitely numberclose.

Or get a wingman to entertain the girlfriend.

Wingman is your best shot. But i must say in almost 2 years clubgame i never encountered this situation.

If you dont got a wingman. I would say dance with her friend is the best option. maybe just for a little, talk with her and say ''im going to talk with ur friend again oke?''.

And in the end u could always change targets.

Having a wingman is key in these situations.

If you want to just dance with a girl, there's nothing wrong with bumping and grinding for an hour. You might even be able to get a dancefloor makeout. But in my experience, those are *not* the girls you go home with. Those are the girls who sober up, realize they've been getting hot with a stranger for an hour in front of everybody, and then bail so they don't feel slutty.

Three things you need to do to keep her from thinking about bailing:

(1) Don't ignore her friends. If you want to see her again after, you want her friends to think "that guy seemed cool", instead of "who was that guy you were making out with for an hour?" Dancing with her friend won't help nearly as much as charming the hell out of both her AND her friend.

(2) Disengage from the dance floor sooner rather than later. Leave her wanting more. Cultivate a mystery. You might have one song where you're dancing together, and another song where you're getting hotter. Always be the one to back away before she does. "Let's get a drink." "Let's go find your friends."

(3) Think about your exit plan. If you're trying to get a number and a day two, you're probably better off shutting down the interaction at a high point, and then talking to other people. Don't ride the interaction into the ground. If you want to actually close her and take her home right then and there, it's more complicated. But the rule is the same: keep the interaction moving forward, instead of stretching it out until the club closes down.