so theres this girl in one of my college classes. I ended up getting her number and all that.

I asked her if she'd wanted to go for coffee or something this week and she seems glad to. But at the same time we have school and everything so i asked her if she'd like to hang out after classes of friday or saturday to have some drinks but she says shes busy all those times telling me shes shopping on fri and going to a bar for st patties day so im like okay then. (the problem is she has a fake id, i dont care for that i just know people so i can get into some bars/most clubs) I havent replied since

most of this is text.

so i believe that shes sincerely busy, do you guys think i should keep talking to her as normal? How do i know when shes bullshitting or shes not interested anymore.

on another note. does the first "hang out" have to be something casual like coffee or can i ask her to come drink and stuff after i got her number?

Am in college too and been there man.

What i do is I just work on another girl who is relatively close to the girl you were hitting on, but not too close. Then, if you are successful, she will sense that you are a funny, popular guy and wanting to increase her reputation, she will be the one hitting on you.

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ill try that out