Girls love the attention they get from their looks, but what they really want is a deep connection with a man. If you have the game to do so, your in her pants in no time. Escalate, don't open your heart out like a women, but make her feel a deep connection and she'll fall in love with you, and want to fuck your brains out. Escalating when done right creates a deep connection with a women, keep your frame and get her adrenalin up a little and she'll fall in love with you. This stuff isn't just to bang chicks, but if you meet a special one you should defiantly attempt to. Don't try to hard where it looks like you trying to make her fall in love with you, be so good at it that she thinks it just naturally happened. Being a busy, important, person with goals in life this will just naturally occur.


"Women are just compliments to our lives"-shark

hey man i totally agree with you esculating and opening up to girls. However how do you make that "deep connection" with a girl? what do you mean by that any examples??
Thanks

Don't open up to women, get them to open up to you. To make a deep connection you have to get them to invest in you. Use compliance tests to get her to invest in you, check out chiefs guide to outer game.

To get a deep connection, I usually do a cold read. Especially if you get into a point where you've already gotten a few IOIs but it's starting to die down a bit and getting into some boring conversation. When that happens, just start looking inquisitively into her eyes and as she's talking about the boring subject, just say "You know what I just realized?..." and totally break her state. Then when she asks "what?", say something about her voice tonality, maybe something about her body language. Point something out about herself, and then once you do that just say something along the lines of a barnum statement (google it). They're cold reading phrases that most people can relate to, but it seems so damn personalized if you do it right. If she doesn't open up by then about what you noticed, just proceed with a qualifying question. Here's an example of what I'm talking about:

HB: Yeah, I just really like dogs...especially the blablablablabla

EQ: (Cut her off and look at her inquisitively) You know what I noticed?

HB: Haha, what?

EQ: The way you stand...

HB: Bla bla bla

EQ: I feel that you enjoy and welcome new relationships into your life, but you tend to test people before they fully get to know the REAL you. Like, okay, this is the party, woo-girl (HB's name), but there's another layer to you that you normally don't show others. How often does your nerdy/quiet side come out?

Then you can go in to talking about how you can only count your close friends on one hand, maybe a story about how you were the leader of men to one of your close friends, bust out a picture routine, talk about family, how they make you feel, the options are endless. Then once the deep moment is fleeting just look at her and say something like "...We click..." and give her a high five or hug or pull her close or something and ask if she's a good dancer. You can't always be deep, but bringing it in and out keeps her stimulated and feeling closer and closer.

I'm just riffing, but I did something similar last night and it worked like a charm. Reminder, you can only get away with switching the convo that abruptly if you've already built enough attraction and received enough IOIs.

Hope this helps and let me know if you guys have any other methods to your madness I can try out. Field report what I said and let me know how it works for you!

-EQ-