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Looking for topics, vids anything on getting the women to seduce you. Did a search but couldn't find much. I'm talking about after you've opened and created some rapport then backing off a bit and getting her to ask questions, keep the interest level. Was watching a vid from daygame on how you come in with high energy then slowly level it off to where she's trying to put in the energy instead. They were saying it works even better with hot girls because they usually never have to try. Found it quite fascinating.
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Rapport hooks can be very useful, not just in attraction but general conversation. There are two main varieties of rapport hooks, verbal and non-verbal.
The non-verbal rapport hook means you show very slight disinterest through body language - this is after you are already mid-conversation and have already demonstrated value. Look away for a second: does she try to regain your attention? If so, then she is interested.
One verbal rapport hook is very similar to the above, only you just stop speaking. For example, tell an interesting story that could potentially be very long and elaborative but be very brief and cut out all the details. But imply that there are other details waiting to be revealed. Say, 'to cut a long story short...everything worked out just fine'. Or something to that effect. She should ask more about the details if she is genuinely interested.
Basically, these both lead to her doing more of the work.
But this raises an interesting question; to what extent do you want her to feel in control psychologically. What I mean is that if you put her in a position where she is able to manipulate the conversation will she still want to seduce you? Difficult to tell...
Then again, there is also a completely opposite problem - would she feel pressured by your attempts to impress the role of seducer upon her?