Well she isn't my official girlfriend but you know we were seeing eachother for two months then we went to just cooling it for a bit. Well she keeps saying she is single and doesn't want a relationship but she started talking to me about sex alot and I think she is implying she wants to be friends with benifits.

Then I phoned her today and lunchtime and she was sleeping and got pissed off because she thought I should of known because she was working the night before. I laughed because I didn't expect her to sound so rude plus she used to ring me like 7 am all the time.

She told me the other day that she was talking to lots of guys in Facebook and it was fun because there was so many messages. Today she goes, "at work me and my friend hooked u up with some girl haha" I said "why would u...u wouldn't do that you know we have attraction" then she says "haha your gonna have some girl coming up too you" I said something like you want nothing, alright than *her name" and then she goes "alright then *my name*" I changed subject after quickly.

This was the convo she was half alseep, she really wanted to get off, we agreed to speak in a few days but she was kinda meh about it. I said to her cya babe and she just said take care.

FWB sort of things often have a lot of bumps, one day she will LJBF you and others she will want to have sex. So go and meet some other chicks maybe, have a good time, and just like with pickup, when she see's other chicks around you and you are having fun without her, you'll have preselection and a jealousy plotline. Maybe she will try and get back with you, or not. If not, what does it matter, you've got new chicks.

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Phonecall was brutal, I was talking as normal and she was just acting so apathetic. Later on I went on Facebook and for the first time she appeared on the chat, usually she is online but hidden.

She messaged me first and that and I asked her what time she got up etc and she said "lateeeee lol". I told her sorry that I woke her up and I thought she would be up early like always.

I still think the reason she has acting so funny with me was to do with something that Asian Shemale might of said. I also don't get why she said she hooked me up, unless she was just after an argument. I really want to let her know how he was acting but it might not help much. If the above is true, she has put this guy above me the entire 3 weeks she has known him. Total bullshit.

why would you say sorry? dont be sorry, youre an alpha, you dont have to justify what you do!

Last time I spoke to her was monday night she was REALLY positive and sounded interested calling me babe like 6 x and she was saying to me she might be able to see me on Tuesday but when I phone her she flaked and never even answered her phone.

Then Wednesday she was txting me asking me if I was working that day and I txt her back and later in the evening telling her I was thinking of her and she txt me back saying that something bad happened to her at work. I still don't know what that is, I'm afraid people at our work might of been hassling her or bad mouthing me. Like this creepy femine man friend who follows her around, he knows I don't like him because he seems interested in her, and he might of said something bad **** about me.

I saw her on Facebook chat today and as soon as I said hello to her she logged off, then I log out for 10 minutes log back on and logs out again.

5 minutes later I am back and she stays on for about 5 minutes and writes to her friends that she is on her way out then she just logs out. I don't get it! if there is something wrong she could say and she knows I would make it right. So I've got work Sun/Tues/Weds. I want to ask her if she is going but I just think she is trying to get rid of me now. Been in contact for 3 months!!!