I met a chic and she acts very into me, we have hung out several times. I make sure not to text her on some days, as she will pursue me, and then switch up the routine by texting/gaming her. She told me the other day she likes me A LOT..lol...via text but shes still "in love" technically with her xbf but not. Its bad timing and shes just still upset about the whole past situation. What are good ways to go about this, or possibly links to other threads on this type of situation. I told her I'm not the relationship type right now and she was looking at things from the wrong perspective. I am very interested in her, but not sure what route is best to take. Thanks

I think your playing it pretty well so far. From my experience when a girl is recently broken up from her ex and you start seeing her and being really nice and committed etc. they almost always end up ditching you for a one nighter with their tosser ex boyfriends.

Just play it cool. Tell her your seeing other girls and you want to keep things casual for now. If she's just come out of a serious relationship then she won't want anything serious right away.