I have a problem with this, well don't know if it is a problem.I went with couple girls on dates.Dates weren't boring,light kino,discussing funny movies, but there was no flirting/negs.I mean is it necessary if you want sex with her? Is there any way I can get good at it ?Cause it seem more fun and effective with teasing and flirting.

Yes. No flirting = friends zone. You don't have to go balls to the walls with flirting but you definely need to let your intentions be known.

Dam.How can I improve my flirting skills ?I'm terrible at this, if I try to tease it usually comes off pretty rude and touchy.

Dude you are seperating flirting from seduction. When you seduce you ARE FLIRTING. All you have to do is talk about normal stuff then turn the heat up and make it spicy.

Dont be afraid to take a few bullets she might look at you like "omg can't believe you said that" it doesn't matter ok.

Flirting to me is when you are prepared to make mistakes. The key thing about negging is to make sure that you have a comeback if she takes it wrongly.

Think of a comeback before you neg.

A neg might be " Do that smile again you just look so childlike when you do that."
Negging is not about being offensive that's what people think.

I agree with this. However, Negging per say should only be done early. If you are at day 2, you shoudn't neg, you hsould tease.

Neg = Disqualifier
Tease/Ball busting = flirtatious

Negging is to disqualify yourself to lower bitch shields and dissarm obstacles. If you are doing that in day 2... well you have other issues to clear first.

In your example, I think a better tease would be.

*with a smile on your face* "Ah, you look so cute when you smile like that. Reminds me of my 4 year old niece. So innocent and naive." You push pull, you teased but did not disqualify.

It might be old 'theory' but you never neg past A2. The furthest you should go is a freeze out.

I agree on this.

Its extremly important to get teasing/qualification going.

It can be about anything. I only go with situationel stuff on dates.
Based on the following rules.

1. Ask for her honest opionon on something.
2. Tease her by having the opposit opinion. Push her til she comes back at you.
3. Tell her you can totally relate to her thoughts, that you understand... but you have a diffrent view.
4. Agree to disagree.
"Isn't it great that we have diffrent opinions on stuff. I would get bored talking to someone who just agrees to everything. So boring"

Example:

You: What do you mean you dont eat meat? Do you feel sorry for the animals?
Her: Well, I just dont like eat. It grooses me out.
You: What? You probably wouldn't be alive if it wasnt for meat.
Meat makes you strong. Who are you to not eat animals? We have been doing it for a long time.
Her: Well I dont like the way animals are treated bla bla bla
You: Well, I can agree to that. I love animals too. Never wanne see an abused animal.But we are supposed to eat them you know. So what do you eat?

She will tell you what she eats, tell her you would never eat that.
Make her explain what she likes with it. Tell her you'll give it a try.
And so on...


This might seem like a meaningless convo, but it isnt.
Its the way I talk to girls, and it provides 2 things that are good for you.
1. By you asking questions she will understand you are intrested into getting to know her, not just have sex.
2. She will feel that you are pretty much checking out where she stands.
If she's good enough for you.

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