so i just finsihed my 3rd date with a hb9...she is the perfect catch and have been keepin her cat stringed very patiently to this point. i had been out of the game for a while due to personal depression, and went a whole 2 1/2 years without any sex. in the process of this drought, i lost all game confidence. after reading "the game", i have been re-introduced to the whole scene with a new perspective and motivation that i have been lacking for a while. the hb9 was a set i picked up from a pool about a week ago and think i got her pretty hooked at this point. i gamed an old neighbor i grew up with that came into town from KC for a reunion and f-closed her right away without virtually any effort...she was a hb6...had to close on her even though i wasn't really into her, just for the sake of dustin the cob webs off b4 i successfully close with the hb9. the hb9 shows many IOI's throughout the night every nite we are together, but i wanted more than the usually passionate kiss and had to escalate the sexual tension. i didnt try any kino or nuthin and just went with the natural game. had her topless in my bed grindin on me and the energy kinda just slowly faded. ASD maybe? anyway, problem is, that im runnin outta matierial and want this to quickly escalate. i feel like she is almost runnin game on me and winning, though i dont show any signs of defeat to her. the "hard to get" thing obviously keeps anyone more determined to pursue and finish. i need help on escalating this to a much stronger physical aspect sexually instead of the rut i fear i can see in the near future, unless something changes. please offer any advice on handling this situation. im really gettin lost and dont want it to show as a lack confidence from me. thx guys...