Hey, We have alot of hall parties around where I live they have been very popular now, and so I have slowly been improving my game.


3) (Most recent and stems where my question is from) I was dead sober (Because b but I was completely comfortable, approached two girls at the coat check and talked to them for a bit and they said they had to talk or something..

anyway was dancing on the dancefloor and they came up to me, i did the fun test (grabbed there hand and spun it around) etc..
but they kept saying they hated this music..did not look pumped up at all.. etc and so i got my Dj friend to put on some techno and they got up and danced again..

but everytime they left i acted like i dident care stayed in same spot and danced pretty good. and they kept coming back..

but what I do NOT understand is... that I played it alright i did not grab them for a grind instead danced front to front and tried a couple spins..
Every other guy would run up...grab them and grind them from behind and they brushed off EVERY GUY...

yet i tried a couple times to take it further later and nothing happened. I tried to even grab one girls hand (to do some spinds and shit which im good at)..

Eventually they both leave and one comes back..her friend left her there (she was supposed to get a ride but decided to stay)
SO I thought I was golden..tried to grab her hand..but NOTHING!

then we just kept dancing and dancing and dancing... but near each other..nothing more.. I probably looked really really gay lol
and once Techno came on she got pumped up..we were dancing in a circle and she was dancing crazily.. but nothing more


What was going on?

Was she only interested in coming there to DANCE, and was using me to protect her from other guys>

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After partying it up in San Diego, Eugene (Oregon) and coming back to the Bay with dancefloor game, I've come to some conclusions.


Level of Dancefloor Social Proof (with Tier 1 being the best)

TIER 1:

- Entourage (few buddies, LOTS of hotties)
/This is by far the best. Having a few buddies that are suave dancers, and having lots of girls around you, your dancefloor opening rate should be close to 100%. In fact, your closing rate should be above 90% too. This is ALWAYS desired

- Entourage (ALL hotties)
/Some of you guys might say, why isn't this the best? Well, it's hard to distinguish this with the previous, but I guess the fact that you are lacking a few suave dancers and guys that will back you up makes it .5 points lower (whatever that means). Nonetheless don't get me wrong, this is absolutely awesome to have!!!

- A few suave dancing wingmen and one or two girls


TIER 2:

- Pivot/Pivots
/Controversial I realized. The previous one could easily be switched with this one and have the ("a few suave dancing wingmen and 1 or 2 girls") in tier 2. However, pivot and pivots are always awesome to have and make your dancefloor game SO much easier!!

- Dancing wingmen that are just having fun
/Seriously, having a group of buddies that know what they're doing when it comes to dancing with girls, eases your life so much. Even ONE guy that knows what he's doing is so much better.

TIER 3:

- Instant Pivot
/Instant pivots are awesome. Unfortunately for a guy like me that travels a lot, I cannot always have my desired entourage/wingmen/pivots with me. Therefore, I need the skillset to be able to get instant pivots to make sure I'm social proofed on the dancefloor. The key to Instant pivots is that you need to give them a time constraint, so they will agree to winging you out.

- Instant Wingmen
/Instant pivots are definitely more ideal than instant wingmen. This is in the case of necessity, you will have instant wingmen. However, sometimes you are lucky and find this guy that attracts all the attention. OF course, having him as an instant wingmen definitely helps you out a lot!


Tier 4:

- Befriending/Disarming cockblocks
/This is absolutely last resort. Most girls don't dance by themselves so that's why we have social proof. This is definitely last resort. My problem is I usually don't even have the energy to do something like this.


What do these tiers mean? These tiers refer to the level of social proof for dancefloor game. It just makes things easier. Tier 1 definitely makes things the easiest. Game is all about simplifying things, at least according to me!

Does this only apply to dancefloor game? No not really. It can be applied to other areas of game, with some adaptation (e.g. you wouldn't have dancing wingmen in daygame)

Are these tiers rigid? No. For example, I mentioned that perhaps 5 girls as pivots might be better than 3 guys and 2 girls, or the other way around depending on the individuals. Sometimes, having Justin Timberlake as your sole wingman could even be better than having an entourage of 50 girls. So it just really depends. Of course, the tiers are set up in logical and USUAL sequence.

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Something that works well for me when i want to face the girl / grind with her again is i just grab her arm put it over her head and say 'give me a spin'

simple and very effective

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Hi guys,

I hope you guys are constantly referring back to these tips.

Lots of new developments have been happening with me lately so hopefully I'll keep everyone posted on that.

Anyway, feel free to ask any questions.

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One cool method i discovered is to position yourself about a meter from the set from a side angle. If the girls are not in a circle just sway a bit left and right with easy dance moves. After a few minutes of this move your arm out to the hb you want dont point just a reach out move. Works well for me with plenty of sets. The HB will either copy your move or come to you if she likes you. Oncve she does this dance for a minute or twon before grabiing her hand and spinning her round. Then let her spin you round. After three spins try and escale further, she may either put her arm around you if not take the lead by doing this and try grinding her.


If you behave like ive got no interest in pulling and just wanna dance women will open up more to you and be far easier to approach.

How do you dance? I am so uncoordinated and have nfi what to do! Someone post some links to good youtube videos?
Great thread going, keep it up.

scorpio- Hope you enjoyed the youtube vids.

Hi guys,

Yes I am back yet again. Lately I've been really busy touring with various PUA companies and collaborating with some of the best.

Rather than neglecting dancefloor game, I've decided to incorporate it to my new style of game: Compliance.

I now use dancefloor game as means of compliance. In fact, my game right now is entirely based on pre-compliance (the "prep" work you do before you run your first compliance test), compliance tests and compliance bridging (the interaction that occurs between one compliance test and the next).

For instance, if you come in and approach the girl on the dancefloor, you're essentially giving her a compliance test. IF she automatically rejects you, it just means your pre-compliance was not enough, and you may need to do more pre-compliance or perhaps throw her a smaller compliance test.

Dancefloor escalation is running compliance tests after compliance tests. From the moment you make her put her hands on your shoulders, to you putting your hands on her waist, to dancing her as if you're hugging her up to kissing her, that's just smaller compliance tests to the next. In this case, compliance bridging is very small because dancefloor game is all about compliance testing, which is what I love about it the most.

In a broader scale of game, dancefloor game should just be part of game, as I've stopped using dancefloor game to revolve around my entire game. At a club, while even in isolation I'm still technically "dancing" since the music is so blasting loud, but that's already isolation game.

What dancefloor game should ultimately do for you is to help facilitate compliance.

Please ask if you have more questions.

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hey I-Am-me

thanks for the reply.

what are the links tothe youtube videos?

can you go over compliance test, like isolating her to take a seat, and sweettalk her to a kiss.

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this stuff is pretty helpful

im very new by the way, but my problem in club situations is actually getting the confidence to dance with a random girl. i mean in many other situations i have plenty of confidence.