Ok, so usually all can go well and i have some decent beginning game, Cocky and Funny, negging, pushing and pulling, DHV's etc and i maybe sometimes get some IOI's.

Well I usually drag this out for about 2-3 weeks because i dont know what do do next...and then the girl loses interest and stops texting or what not.

My mid game is failing obviously. Talking about Sex doesnt work alot of the times either because the girls are young 17-18 and are somewhat of "goody goodies" and building attraction is pretty hard Over a phone/texting.

Anyone have some tips?

First of all welcome to the PUA forum.

The age is not a factor if you both are of adult age. My last girl was a SHB9 but with sexy clothing a total SHB10 bad as girl that is 19 so barely legal and I'm older than her with more than 5 years. So age is not a factor if you both are adults. Why do you try to build attraction with a girl over the phone or text when you haven't been out together? So don't do that man! You can't see how she answers to your DHVing over the phone. So I would say keep it short and show that you are a bussy man. I mean I have many things to do and just can't be talking to a person that I don't know that much about over the phone for hours. So go quickly to your point to set up a date (do something together) and then go on from there...

If you're getting IOIs you have to act on them. Start the kino, get some escalation on the go.

Something I had to learn the hard way: If you do not make a move when she is comfortable with you doing so, she will get bored and start to feel discomfort towards you. Keep the attraction game going, get some kino on the go and escalate before it all blows out.

If you don't eat a warm meal while it's warm, it will go cold, and even if you microwave it, it won't be the same again. God I love metaphors.

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Your momma's so fat when she walked past the TV she was going to the kitchen to get cake 'cos she's fat.

Good metaphore! Yes! He is right I had that problem too. When the girl is WARM and you don't ACT then she will begin to think IT IS NORMAL NOT TO ACT. And since it is normal not to act, it will be HARDER and HARDER to act, because IT IS NOT NORMAL TO ACT.

You know what I mean?

It's the same with kino, if you do not start touching from the beginning of any interaction she will feel weard and you will have to use reasons to kino.