Yeah but guy you can't not use negs EVER, at some point you will
need to brush off the girl to show her that you're going to show
dominance over her world while at the same time showing
respect to her. If you're just all lovey dovy to her and
compliment her all the time and whatnot conveys a
tender neediness and she could take advantage
of that sooner or later.
The neg is a small childlike backhand insult to disarm the girl,
just because she's hot does not mean that you'll take her
shit. It's all in relation to the context in which the neg
is delivered that makes it effective given the
current situation. I mean, if I were to go
up to a chick and say to her "Wow, that
dress makes you looks so slutty! Hi I'm
Chai!" That's not a neg, that's just an insult.
Negs also go well in combination with body language.
If you don't deliver a neg with a straight face and show no
intention of coming off ass cocky, funny or
arrogant and say to her
"Nice dress. I've seen seen the
exact same on another girl last week
You're just coming off as a dude who's rude and conveys
himself as an asshole.
But,if you walk up to the girl...or
group whichever your fancy, and say to the hottest one,
with confidence, cocky intent, arrogance and funny attitude and body
rocking motion, plus a smile in
mind and say..."Hey guys.
Wow, I like your dress love!
I've seen seen the exact same on another girl last week,
you may have a twin sister floating around here!
See how much more effective the neg seems when
inhibiting those aspects into conjunction with
the delivery? Sure, you're insulting her, but
you're playful about it. There are times
when that opener or line has been
used and the girl has replied "
Don't lie dude, I spent $200
on this dress! Anyway, I have been told to have good fashion!"
Believe it or not, that is the kinda response you're looking for!
It doesn't matter about what you say, its about HOW you
say it that makes it effective. Sure you can be playful
all you want but if you don't show her that you
aren't afraid to insult her cause you won't take
her crap, then you'll just end up being the
entertaining dude or the dancing monkey.
If you've failed with the negs in the past, then maybe
it wasn't the material that was the problem
maybe it was the way in which you
delivered it and showed your intent
that made it that less effective.