I'm naturally alpha thanks to my Dad. I had my first sexual encounter when I was 6-7 and first kiss at like 4. But when it comes to women that I am really! Attracted to I become a bitch... Like literally I slap myself. I start shaking, looking around for what to say next, stuttering and then the weirdest thing happens I GET AGGRESSIVE. I get like this permanent frown on my face as if I'm saying what the fuck is wrong with you bitch!. And I swear to god I feel them getting scared (actually I think I've gotten a few numbers just out of pure fear) it's the weirdest thing like I would never hurt them.
I've bought a lot of material i.e The Game, Rules of the Game, Mystery Method etc and watched like all their videos ten times over and also downloaded the Venusian arts app (which I think is neat btw). The three second rule is not working for me. I mean I'm the man when I'm out with my boys but cold approach alone I just start lurking. I get smiles on the street and shit and I can see the fucking IOI's (stroke of the hair, AI - by proximity) but I never think of what to say. Always when I get back in the house though... Ohhh When I get back in front of the mirror I'm James fucking Bond! I constantly keep trying to get into state before I go out anywhere, even to the shop, but as soon as I hit the street on my own, Dull boring AFC. People move out my way when they see me coming, all apologising and shit thinking I'm gonna smack them up and I'm not even a big fella I'm 5.11 and pretty thin. To some degree it works out for me like when I approach a set I'm automatically alpha and AMOGS become beta but I need to balance it. Matador said in a video that he came off as serious but he started smiling more. So what am I supposed to do walk around with a plastered smile 24/7 it comes off abit fake and by the time I notice a girl checking me out I have a straight face I try to smile hers drops and then she turns away... Like clock work!
My right hand man is a natural, girls approach him, and almost every approach he makes he gets the number. He hangs around girls that he's not even fucking that wanna fuck him. Ordinarily you'd think why not ask him but his style isn't for me it's too playful if I do that I'll come across fake. Just like Mystery, sometimes he's over playful which works for him and makes him cool but if I tried that I would look like a bitch who's faking it. But anyway my right and I have this rivalry going on and he's kicking my ass. About three weeks ago he did anal for the first time with this HB 9.5 (I've seen her) I swear to god I felt like smacking those words out of his mouth. But anyway after he told the story I just said cool and stacked *slit eyes*.
But yeah Matador's style is what suits me and my personality. Please if you can help me out awesome!!!
Woah you had sex for the first time at 6-7. That's straight pimp man, and you're a natural alpha. You don't know how lucky you are man. No one taught me how to pick up girls properly (my families a bit on the conservative side) I mean I've had friends give me some advice here and there but I'm pretty much learning loads from the internet so hey atleast you got a wingman, and you're doing okay.
But yeah as far as Matador's style goes I'd say he's really calm and cool, so if you wanna copy his style watch the pickup artist, or check out his site: http://puaartist.com/
He has a bootcamp you could go to also.