Ok, so its not a REAL realtionship but...

I kinda had this thing with a girl for like 3 weeks (we had sex a few times) and then I moved away (far, like to another country) momentarily. I will be back in like 6 months and the thing is I like this girl. We havent actually discussed being in a long distance realtionship and to be honest I have every intention of sleeping with other girls while away.

However, I want to continue what we started when Im back. She texts me non-stop. Some days its two or three times a day. She also texts me everytime she is drunk (I know she drunk because its 4am on a saturday morning and she actually bothers texting me).

My question is, should I always text back and continue the conversation or should I play a bit cold and ignore her sometimes or respond with one word answers or reply 2 days later?

I'd say if you guys have a lot to text and you go back and forth for a while, you should just have her call you or go on SPAM or something. I'm leary of texting a lot because she's kind of just using you to feel less lonely. If you get something out of it, do it, if you don't then have her do something else for you, like strip on a webcam.

Anyway, good luck with that. I was trying to maintain an interest with this girl that moved 1000 miles away. It's been like 4 months, and the vibe is definitely that we've mutually lost interest (especially now I'm working on my social network). If she ever comes to visit, the option is still there to hang out, though.

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31 and still figuring it out.

Chances are, unless you guys fall in love, shits going to get fucked up while you're away. I'd suggest just halting most of the conversation while you're gone so you dont inadvertantly kill ties with her.

I would say that you can continue to text her just so that you are still on her mind. Do it very sparingly though. Keep texts short. You want to show that while you are away you are having so much fun and meeting so many other girls you don't need to worry about her anymore. Basically I think that the less you text her back, the more she will assume you have found something better which will raise your value in her eyes.

Continue talking to her on facebook, text, SPAM (if you like her)
If not, don't.

it is simple.


Then do whatever you want while you are away have fun, she cannot find out.

(The way I see it is you are practicing your sex and techniques so when you come back you can blow her out of the water with your awesomeness)

While you are away and hooking up with other girls, this will help you decide whether you actually want to be with her, or whether you have moved on.

And when your back you can pick up where you left off, or just be friends with her.