I don't know if it is because of her shyness but she never initiates and always waits for me to do things.

She never calls first, never suggests a date, never reschedules unless I call her and invite her out. However, she is the sweetest girl whenever we are together or on the phone, I have no suspicions about her interest in me.

On the other hand, I am getting turned off and tired with making all this effort and expect her to put some effort into this. What is the best way to make it happen?

Once, I did not call her for 2 days and when I called her on the 3rd day, she was all over me, saying that she has missed me a lot with an excited voice. Maybe I should pull away a little and give her a chance to do things. What do you think?

Or instead of being passive about it. Tell her how you feeling like she isn't contributing too this relationship, and initiating contact with you etc. etc. Why try these passive pua mind tricks instead of hitting the nail on the head?

i vote for jedi mind tricks, lol

i'm also a huge proponent of the Vulcan MindMeld!!!

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