So I have this long-standing "friend with attraction." Long story short, 5 years ago she got married, we stopped talking, recently started talking again. She was still married.

We dated several times and screwed. She had an awesome time. We dated once more, she was feeling bad about her husband.

She went back to her husband, he found out what had been going on and kicked her out of the house. She got distant and stopped talking to me for a while.

I LOST IT. I got clingy and was messaging her WAY too fucking much and hounding her for a relationship even though she said she was not interested in one and even thought *I* DO NOT FCKING WANT A RELATIONSHIP.

Basically I lost my shit.

So what I did is this-- she said some manipulative things, I pimpslapped her (in email) and said she is not ready for a relationship right now. I was nice about it-- she is hurting and fucked up right now because of her marriage breaking up and all the shit that goes along with that. But I did call her on her bullshit comments and she seemed to respond to that.

We talked today on the phone and it sort of ended on a good note. That was all damage control though, I didn't think it was a good idea to freeze her off UNDER THE CIRCUMSTANCES. The fact of her marriage breaking up sort of having to do with me makes matters a little more touchy than they would otherwise be. But now I think distance would be a good idea and frankly I need a break from the situation.

I just really wanna be fuck buddies with her. She is an 8 or a 9 to me.

We have massive natural chemistry unlike any I've ever felt except with one other woman. That's one reason I was sort of thrown for a loop.

My guess is that I pushed her off with relationship bullshit that I DON"T WANT EITHER.

But I think I was able to sort of do a push-pull by saying that I'm not interested in a relationship with her, right at the end, then being nice and gallant about it.

Should I drop all contact? How long?

Would it be a good idea to drop it COMPLETELY and then start striking up a conversation more and more about six months or so down the road? Again we have massive natural chemistry and I am absolutely convinced that I can screw her if I can get her to hang out. This is all that I really want-- we are very sexually compatible but she is into a bunch of new-age shit that I want very little to do with, basically I just want her for a fuckbuddy. I could PROBABLY get together with her this week but I really don't wanna do that because of my reaction and her unresolved anger toward her asshole drunk of a husband.

So I wanna wait a while until her emotions about her husband subside and hopefully along with them her memories of my bizarre behavior. I am really not that bent out of shape over her at this point. I sure was bent out of shape over her a week ago though. But I think I was able to salvage it and end it on a somewhat favorable note. Now is NOT the time to be anywhere near her.

Thoughts?

Also I believe that she is extremely attracted to me. I think I may actually be somewhat less attracted to her than she is to me but I fucked it all up hardcore. Really not all that invested in this and frankly I am kinda creeped out by my OWN reaction to her, to be honest.

On second thought, nothing coming from here.

Took a while for me to pick it up but I caught the stench of a sociopath. Situations like that it's best to GTFO as early as possible.