Ok first of all, if you saw South Park last week, you'll probably laugh at me. However, I still take social networking sites somewhat seriously cause it's still our social center/circle.

Anyway, my gf and I were married on fb as a joke. I decided to change it to in a relationship cause I felt like the joke is over and I didn't want people to think we're a joke. Well, it "won't let her change it". Facebook is a site that usually simply works though, so why wouldn't it let her? I believed her but then...

I left a comment on her wall, she replied, then I left another one that mentioned that I'm her boyfriend and that I love her. She deleted it I posted it again. It happened like 7 times. She said it deleted itself. She's at the movies right now so I posted it again, it's still there since she's not able to delete it from her phone.

So, now I'm thinking she's hiding me. She doesn't have family on fb so that's not a problem, she's not hiding anything from them. Maybe she's hiding something from her guy friends? Or worse, her lover or something.

By the way, we're in a long distance relationship. Yeah I've met her in real life and everything, this isn't one of those internet things.

Why do you think she's hiding me? :S Thanks.

Fireworks,

I was just in this situation a couple of months ago. It's an easy fix though, quit posting those things on her wall, you seem needy by doing so. Anyway, besides that just giver her a call and be very blunt and confident. Ask if she's not telling you something. If she says no, just move on. Usually if she is hiding something she'll feel guilty and tell you, but you can't be suspicious or accusing especially if she's innocent! Otherwise you'll lose this one. There could be other reason why she's deleting your posts but it is somewhat suspicious. I say confront and then drop it if she says no. You chose to be in a long-distance relationship and thus you'll have to deal with the fact that you can't be there and keep an eye on her. If you really are in a loving relationship then there's no reason to worry about cheating.

Hope this helps.

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That's odd. I'd confront her about it. Maybe she just isn't too into public affection??? Something else could be going on though. It's a tough call.

lol don't you have anything better to do? If you were my boyfriend, I'd wanna hide you too.

Pretty odd behaviour she is probably with other guys!

it sounds a little fishy to be honest. Posts don't get deleted by themselves, that is a BS response from her.

Confusing still cant say she is cheating you, may be something will there as a reason , so be confident to make a call to her .

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