Hey guys right now 100 things are going through my head and i just need an outside opinion from people who know what they are talking about.

Ok, so Heres me:

I am normally extremely confident and outgoing and my inner game was tite, i honestly couldnt find any insecurities BUT i hadnt been in a relationship of any sort for 6 years.

Now i am seeing a girl and i found out that my insecurities lie in constantly feeling like my girl is playing me, leading me on or losing interest.

Here is the situation...

She is in a city 3-5 hours away. When she is with me, i can see her, i can touch her and i am at peace because she really likes me and it really shows.

When she is not with me, all my insecurities start creeping back. If she doesnt txt back fast enough it starts, if i dont hear from her in like 2 days i go crazy.
Truth is though she has 2 jobs and gets caught up in life when shes over there.

So when we are not together we txt and call and SPAM alot. Monday i was really feeling like talking with her so we talked for a bit then i hinted i had to go, barely and she was like "are you going now?" and i said yea... for SOME reason i was like.......she didnt want to talk to me she encouraged me to hang up. Then i txted her that night like after i knew she went to bed and never got a reply the next day(most ppl dont reply to txts so long after, and all i said was "ur hawt...")....i then deleted her number from my phone so i wouldnt be tempted to call her.

It is now 12:48am thursday morning. I am flying back to my country for the summer, which departs friday morning.

You guys that will be reading this might think im making a big deal out of nothing but noone is perfect.

The fact that i havent heard from her is making me feel like im the needy one etc. Should i msg her on facebook tonight saying that im leaving and that i hope to hear from her soon?(which would be the second attempt at me engaging her)
Or should i not say anything in an attempt to make her miss and want me, however if i dont tell her that im flying out might come across as rude. Whats holding me back from a seemingly mature and harmless message is that i dont want to come across as needy and crowding her.

please help and possibly tell me how dumb i am for making a big deal over nothing

are u 2 exclusive?

man, i have to say, when u actually see the power of PU in the field, and how easy it is ato agame a chick that is already in a committed relationship, i would find it hard not to be suspicious of any girlfriend at least a little bit. who wants to be that chump waiting at home while a PUA fuccs ur girl? anyways, tough situation man. her work schedule and distance gives her plenty of excuses for not staying in touch. also, if ur not exclusively seeing each other, it sounds like u may have oneitis.

and even if u are exclusive, u gotta ask urself, "am i willing to continue living like this, when i could be out gaming. or at least searching for a LTR closer to home?"

just food for thought. good luck

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have u ever danced with the devil in the pale moonlight?

Hey man, i left out some important details.

No we are not exlusive, we met each other at the end of the symester(university) and decided to wait till we were back in university together to make anything official. It wont be LD for very long.

Im not necessarily worried about her getting with another guy cuz techinically im not her bf, and after 2 months shes back in the same town as me.

I definately do NOT have oneitis LOL, i mean yes she is on my head allllllll the time tho.