I don't know if this is good or bad..
Last night I was out with my girlfriend, and when we got out, it was raining a little bit, just some tiny drops and it was cold.
So she was like "Go get the car, I'll wait here" .. and I was "No, lets walk" and I wrapped my arm around her and put my coat on her, so I was going all the way with short sleeve freezing myself..
Then she was whining something like "Gosh! You never do what I want" ... which I pressume, that her past boyfriends would have inmmediately ran over to get the car and pick her up at the door, also, she doesn't like walking on the sun, so the same applies.
Now I don't know if thats good or bad, sometimes I think it could be a test, to see if I break and follow her command of actually going for the car and pick her right up at the door.
I mean, I would have done it if it was like raining really strong or even snowing, but it was not a lot of rain.
Is this a good or a bad thing? I see it in my head as good, if they are actually tests, then I've passed them...
What is your opinion?

Yeah, I wasn't gonna let her get all wet on a heavy rain ...
One more thing..
When we started dating she said to take things slow, and not force anything *(We've already known each other for a few years, and her best friend said to me that she was crazy about me , that you could see it) .... So she told me that... and we've only been together for 2 weeks... and yesterday at the movies, I think it was my most exciting time ever to the movies, she got all hot, and started to grope every inch of me, and kissing me so hard, her hips were rocking, as my hand was carressing her thighs...
We were kissing for about 50% of the movie ...
Now, I was thinking to myself of taking her home on our first month, which is in about 2 weeks, but see... the problem in her past relationships has been advancing too fast, and she ALWAYS makes a point about that, whenever we talk about relationships, she mentions that people go too fast.
What exactly could be, going slow... would having sex in the first month go fast??

how old are you?

I am 19..
For me it would be going too fast.
But she is 25, so she may think different than me.

I am 18 and I would consider 1 month to be slow.

It wasn't a test. To me it looks like she just wanted you to get the car and the way she perceived it was that you simply didn't. It would annoy me too. In fact it annoys me when anyone does that.
It really depends on her as a person. At 25 I doubt having sex that soon would be considered fast but then if you haven't slept together already maybe it would be. I think you're just going to have to try it on gently and if she doesn't like it don't push it.

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It really depends on her as a person. At 25 I doubt having sex that soon would be considered fast but then if you haven't slept together already maybe it would be. I think you're just going to have to try it on gently and if she doesn't like it don't push it.[/quote]

Well... I see things.. maybe different, I've haven't had much sex experience...
There's only been a few girls, and counted the times I've had sex... my fastest having sex was like 2 weeks into the relationship...
What happened is that I lost all interest in the girl...
Now.. whenever we kiss, she is ok with me touching her.. like .. we lie down, and I'd rub her butt, and her breasts, and she rocks her hips, as if she was turned on...
Maybe she does wants to do it now, maybe if I make the move she would not stop me.
We have never slept together, but we have escalated a lot physically..
I think its due to the fact, that we're not strangers to each other, we've known each otther for almost 2 years already ...
I'm afraid that in my attempt to go slow, I would be considered slow.

she probably wants to fuck ... maybe in the car.. she is 25 and she`probably isn't virgin she is not the holy saint she is not jean de arc '. actually if you had escalated in the car chances were high it landed into sex - i think she wants it.

sexuality is just normal , i fuck woman i reeeaallly like around the second week and sometimes even after 3 days.

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