Recently ive been seeing a girl whod id like to maby hang around longer than a night. Weve been on a couple dates and its hit me that making someone my girlfriend is something i havnt done in a very long time ..... How do i make this girl want to hang out with me more? trying not to look like a clingy needy bastard here but fuck i feel like a afc...

having a girlfriend is not AFC , most people sit at their homes and can't approach woman - after gaming alot of woman you don't want to get exclusive - you don't want to get into that non-abundance mindset.

why not get into a relationship ? what do you got to lose ? if you don't like it you can end it whenever you want to. If you can't have a relationship /GF you are not a womanizer - if you believe you were made to satisfy woman you can be satisfied with a relationship.

just date her ... if she didn't like you she wouldn't go on dates with you - she probably likes you.

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well weve been on a couple dates .... Last time i saw her i cooked her dinner and the night couldnt of went better .... But the next weekend we both left for easter she continued to text me blah blah happy easter all that shit but i was hesitant to text her first .... Since then i havnt scene her ... she had friend in town and i guess was busy with school... ive dropped her a line just saying hey hope you had a great day hope to see you soon and i always get a good long reply .... This weekend i was at the bars she asked me to come to where she was at i was detained with a girl in the back of her car outside the bar hahah so didnt exactly make it.... Later after the bars closed i texted her hey you wanna hang out she replied where my House? i said i dont care where ever .... she told me she was going to eat. i replied im going home are you free tomorow and havnt got a text back since sat night..... Freaking out here i feel like a faggot this girls got me knotted up.... Any advice?

You are a lil scared bout the relationship thing but i can tell you want it bad!!

BUT control yourself, dont always ask her in the "do you wanna hang out" way. Mayb say somthing like "im going to xxxxx you can come with if you want". ANYWAY main thing is just let her txt u first n stuff somtimes, if you continue to let her know she can have u and see u anytime she wants it might just put her off, cos your still at the early days right ? so keep the attraction by looking high value and not a needy afc guy that your feeling.

p.s your only feeling afc cos you really like her n you feel like your losing control!! regain control, like you said you havent had a gf for a really long time so obviously these feelings etc are hard for you to get a handle on and the natural thing to do is to CHASE!! but u shouldnt do that! play it cool n calm (but no cold n distant haha)

Thanks thats alot of help.... ill keep you updated ....

well she invited me to go with her to beer fest next weekend .... maby her friends will be with her not sure ..... A little unsure on how to come off infront of friends if there and in general any pointers with her ?