In my other recentmade post I wrote about my girlfriends mistake of letting her chatlog being open, and I have been worrying for quite some time, and found certain things I didn't like such as:

- Her wanting to spend time alone with her ex-boyfriend
- Her wanting to take a bubblebath with her ex-boyfriend
- Her saying that she often falls back to the old love, but get bad self-confidence because of her current boyfriend, me.
- Having a web-cam conversation with him wanting to see his thing

During our relationship I have known that she is still in love with him, but he has a girlfriend (and it's over now). I have been in the relationship only to develop my sexual skills and she has practically been my fuck-friend. So in other words, I wouldn't care if she had feelings towards other boys during our relationship. However, I don't want to fuck a girl that's going to be fucked by another boy so I HAVE DECIDED TO BREAK-UP WITH HER!!!

Problem is, I don't want to inform her about my finding of her chatlogs. How can I break-up with her so it hurts her the most. Some alternatives:

- Fuck another girl. Admit it.
- Say I have lost my feelings towards her
- Say I want something "new"
- Say "you should know"

etc... I want to maybe have her as a fuckfriend later on so please share your opinions.

- Consistence

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What can you say that hurts her the most...Do you really want to become that kind of person?, yes she has hurt you and what she did was wrong.

You can't change what she has done but you only have control of how you react and if you choose to act like a dick well...it could come back and bite you in the ass.

EVERY PUA should try and leave the girl better off than they found her, if you want to break up with her you should do it in a civalised way.

In other words show the person youve have had a realationship with the same decency you would show to a stranger youve met on the street.

Nate is right!!

And this will hurt her and leave you looking good. I know you dont want her to find out about chat logs but this is what u should do.

BE DIRECT

Sit her down and have a talk with her!

Say "I've had a great time with you [name] and will have happy memories of the time we have spent together, but i think we both know you love [name] so its time we ended this, your a really nice girl and i hope your happy in the future"

You could throw in "i saw a chat log with your ex..... im not mad i just think its time to go" wotever.


ANYWAY i dont have experience with this but in my opinion!!! This works because you come off looking like a really sweet understanding guy who SHE HAS JUST LOST. And if your all nice and your suggesting the break up say it like your not really bothered or emotionally attached, but your kindness must be genuine.


Leave and dont see her for a long time, you can txt or wotever but all BBF stuff!

She might not even flinch or care but when her life fks up later it will kill her that she had a nice guy who has now gone, just act like its no biggy!

Exactly.

Don't hurt her intentionally, break up with her in a way so that you can still feel like a man and keep your back straight and chin up.

In a while, she will realize what a good guy she let go of and she will be feeling worse from that, than from anything you could do at the break up.

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