Hey you guys!

Here's my background. 7Month ago I learned about the game and started practising by my self; club, street, school.
After a month I found this HB 8 at school I gamed her; and it worked. We dated for a little more than a month but it wasn't official. We had a strong attraction for each other and a great emotional connexion. At some point she even told me that it was the first time a guy was stuck in her head like this...

But suddenly she started to feel distant so I was like "do you want to end this?" she agreed eventhough she admited she was loosing someone important. She didn't gave me a clear reason for the break up but she was hesitating and said smth like: "it's either I invest 100% in this or I just leave it" and she did.

I stopped talking to her right away, I deleted her from my phone and facebook, and wrote a short e-mail telling her that I needed to move on. We were in the same class but right when we broke up, the staff went on strike and school was off for 2 months. I Had absolutely 0 contact with her.

That gave me time to move on, and to reflect on my self. Why did I fucked up meanwhile I was successful at picking her up? The reason is that I was a newbie, completely unaware of how girls work. And I knew that if didn't practise some more the same shit would happend to me everytime.

She didn't gave me any clear reason but I finally found them out. Huge lack of confidance, undecisiveness and lack of sexuallity cuz I was affraid to be too direct (I had the opportunity to fuck her 3 time! The last time I licked her pussy, she was horny as fuck she asked me if I had a condom, I said yea but we should wait! I was such a douchtard!!!
She wanted sex and I didn't gave it to her, i'm pretty sure that's on of the reason she dumped me.

BUT during these 2 months I've been sarging 2 night a week and anytime in the streets. At this point, I can consistently get a n-close every time I go out. And most of the time I get a k-close the same night.
I know I still got a lot to work on, but my confidence, my body language, tone of voice, and sexual vibes are 10 times superior than it used to be.

Plus I got a new job, new social circle, new things going on in my life in general.

This week school was on again and guess what: I have class with HB8 tomorow morning and I'm pretty sure we will talk to each other.

Now, I'm not gonna lie to you guys but I had a really great time with this girl, but to me, it ended way to shortly. I'd love to, at least, bang her, and spend a little more time with her to see how it goes. I know what fucked up and I got what it takes to not fuck this again.

My question is, tomorow, when I'll talked her how should I do seduce her again?

I know i'm gonna have to demonstrate some massive HV, be playful, and kino but should I be sexual and direct or act like I totally moved and get a more friendly vibe?

Or use somth like the Shock and Awe method? Idk


Thanks for your help and reading this awfuly long post.

Peace.

Well bro I was in almost the exact same situation and I don't want to give you advice on how to act, because I really dont know if there is any perfect way to act. But let me tell you how it went for me:

We broke up kinda the same way, and I we decided we'd go back to being just friends. So I went out a lot, just like you, 4-5 nights a week for 5 weeks, scoring numbers and k-closes and f-closes and day 2's and so on. After a while I realized no one came close to my ex, or what we had together and how I felt.

So one night I come back from a disastrous double-date, pretty drunk, and I check MSN and see her on, and she had something weird in her name that I wanted to know about cus she seemed pissed off or whatever, and we started talking. We talked and talked and we talked for 4 hours straight on MSN until she suddenly said "I miss this, dont you?" and I told her I missed her too, and that the girls I've dated just dont give me the same feeling as she did. She replied she felt the same way, and asked me if she could come over the next evening for a movie. I hesitated because I was afraid of getting hurt again, but I thought I could at least try and tap her once and see where we end up.

She dropped by and we kissed, she's been with me almost every day since then (4 months now).

I don't know if this story helps any but, maybe my message is that you can be honest about your feelings towards her, if she feels the same way and misses you a little, she will tell you about it.
Just like you I've learned from my past mistakes in the relationship and I have a different mindset, if she picks up on this, she will be willing to give you two a 2nd chance. Show her the person you are, that she fell in love with when you two got together.

I know a lot of people on the forum (mostly the theory-junkies) will give you advice about playing it cool, act like you moved on etc, but I can tell from experience that you dont need to do this.

So just go up to her and talk to her like you always did before you two were together, and set up a 'date', call it whatever you like, catching up etc you can think for yourself. Being more sexual could be a good idea though.

Best of luck and let me know how it went bro,

Chillburg.

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or well, maybe not set up a date right away, unless you think she really wants to..
if you dont get that vibe from her, just have a nice conversation and leave it at that, there will be more opportunities for you to build that comfort and attraction again when you see her in class more (i assume you'll see her more than just tomorrow).

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