Just be honest and confident with who you are and what you have. And maybe surprise her once in a while by doing something grown up or more mature, like a real nice dinner.

She can't expect you to behave like a 30 year old with a career, so don't pretend to.

Knowing your own limitations and not considering them to be limitations is part of being a man.

I've dated a few older girls, and will generally tell you they seek out a younger guy because they are baggage free and innocent.

I'd be conscious of that fact and if your relationship progresses don't let her use you or take advantage of your inexperience.


I just want to add on a more positive note that dating an older girl can be a good thing, you can learn a lot, not just sexually

Keep it all in perspective I guess. Take it slow, you've probably had fewer relationships than her and you're motives for getting into a relationship might not be the same (she might be more serious etc..)

By virtue of the fact that you are the 'exception' she broke her rule for, it's obvious she already considers you of equal experience, character and general sexiness as any other guy she has dated. All that's left is for YOU to realize this.

Your boy,
870

P.S., you are in her life and those other guys aren't. What does that tell you?

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Thanks for the replies, it helped me a lot. Though I seem to have a new obstacle...
Friday we had an event in our school, and we kissed, and were hugging, etc.. It was our last day of school for 2 weeks.
I then sent her a message that I wanted for us to be more than friends, and she said it would be complicated, being in the same classroom, what if things didn't work out, we would have to endure seeing each other daily.
What could I do from this point on?

Learn not to verbalize your attraction, for one. The best way to handle these situations is to just let things develop as they will because talking about them is logical and relationships of any kind are based on emotion.

My advice from here forward is to not bring it up again and just continue escalating the nature of the relationship.

Your boy,
870

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