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 Post subject: Cannot let a MLTR go...
PostPosted: Thu Sep 04, 2008 8:51 am 
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Ok guys...

Serious problem... I know it has One-itis written all over it but...

Situation: One of my 6 months MLTRs are going back to her BF.
Complications: She suffers from bad conscience for cheating on him and is afraid of losing the security and suffer the anger of the family.
Positives: She is not convinced that she has made the right choice (even though she says so, it is clear from the IOIs, the bodylanguage etc). Plus she is afraid to see me because it brings back her feelings... She obviously needs the security of her long term BF but has the feelings and attraction for me. Head vs heart.

The Question: It is not IF I should steal another mans GF or if it is morally wrong... I know it is and I know I shouldnt but suppose that I am a complete bastard. HOW should I do it?

I have to get this girl back somehow, its like a splinter in my mind. This situation has come up before but then it I have just treated it as a form of LMR and it has worked. Now, the situation is more serious.
I am currently doing a take away approach...

Examples:
Ezo: Im not in love with you anymore, well I love some things but well (old mystery classic) we are too much alike and if we were to have a serious relationship we would be happy for 1-2 years and then fight like crazy all the time.
HB9: You dont know that, maybe it would be really good.
(Thats a good response isnt it?)

Ezo: Hey give me a hug.
HB9: No.
Ezo: Why? Its a normal thing to do among people who decided to be friends.
HB9: Well, because this decision I took... I thought it would be easier than it is.
Ezo: So you mean that if we hug, you will have feelings that you cannot resist.
HB9: I dont want to answer that question.
Ezo: It wasnt a question, it was a statement.


Ezo: So when we met last night I had a really nice time, too bad you had to go home early.
HB9: Yes, I liked it too and I would have liked to be with you longer.
Ezo: So why didnt you?
HB9: Because my BF calls and I dont want to lie.
Ezo: Never been a problem before.
HB9: You think Im crazy, being the good girl.
Ezo: (Cold read) No, I think you try to be the good girl but I'll give it 1 month and you will be a bad girl again. Its just two sides of one personality, you cannot live without either one.
HB9: I think you are right.

So, those are some of the moments I remember right now... In my opinion it seems that there is attraction, comfort, everything except that I need to break that bad conscience and nostalgic stuff somehow.

If there is somebody out there who will NOT bitch about how morally wrong this is, please help me... Im going crazy!

Love

Ezo


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 04, 2008 2:49 pm 
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I have a similar issue with a close friend of mine. All I do is play solid game, and we generally end up kissing. But, she went and told her BF what happened....she seems unsure also. I'm not looking for a steal myself.... but if your sure you want to back, here's a few pointers:
- Cut the kino. If she does something good, reward. Perhaps point score her.
-Create pressure.
-Stare at her if she says something from the relationship. Build sexual tension.
-Make inside jokes. I call mine boyfriend, she calls me girlfriend. Its awesome.
- Avoid the BF. If she talks about him in a good way, agree. Say he's perfect. If she talks in a bad way, say "Some guys don't know what they've got"
- If you need to see her, and have texts, use some of the lines of the list of texts board. Do this quite late, so she reads them before sleep, or she'll get them the minute she gets up.
- Get one, or more of her friends on your side. They will say, with gentle helping, that she's better with you. Social Proof.
- If she's scared to see you for feelings, just joke about it. Don't dwell upon convincing her. If required, hang with her BF and her for a while. It HURTS so much to see this, but, if she see's you get along, you could fit in her life as a good friend, then widen this slowly until you get what you want.
- Convince you could provide security. Show skills.

What your doing isn't wrong in my eyes. If you wanna be happy, you've gotta have this girl. And if your gonna love her, and be better than this BF, I say go for it.

Good luck.


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PostPosted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 12:52 pm 
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Thanks man! I just love you! This could actually work!

Ezo


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Anytime! Let me know how its goes. :)


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