so i have been with this girl for over 2 months now , things went great between us but i noticed sometimes that she would not answer my call or text right away even though she was online on SPAM which means she was not really busy , then afterwards she would say that she had too much work that's why she couldn't answer .
i didn't give it a real thought at the begining but last 2 days , i noticed that she would act even more distant and ignore some of my text then answer really late, yesterday i called her then she didn't answer saying she is busy with work and it was afternoon ...
later that day when i got off work i saw her with another guy like walking toguether then waiting for the subway at the subway station and i just came by and talked to her she said that dude was a friend and that she was busy because her aunt was at the hospital and she didn't even work in the afternoon which was very suspicious also the way she was hiding the fact that she met a friend drove me crazy .
i know my reaction was over board afterward i said really harsh and ugly stuff to her , then we talked on the phone she pretended that he was just a friend and that she was hurt because of what i said earlier ect and started crying telling me that she has faith in me and that i should trust her .
well after our long call she tried to make it my fault for not trusting her and that she would not feel safe with me if i react like this another time , well my gut tells me she is a liar and that i should move on what do you guys think if you were in that situation would react with anger or was i over reacting
thanks in advance