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I've been seeing this lady for a few months, we're exclusive and we're adults, we have separate jobs and houses.
But she likes to go to bars, and she told me that last night she ended up smoking weed in some guy's car "with him and his girlfriend."
If I'm honest, I don't feel cool with that. But am I being an insecure d*ck? Or would you consider this "appropriate space?"
What do you think? Thanks.
Hmmm...this one is actually interesting to me. At first I thought it was inappropriate, but thinking about...what's wrong with her hanging with a guy and a girl together? I mean, let's say her story is 100% true, she just smoked weed with a guy and his gf, what's inappropriate with respect to your relationship with that? How is a guy and his gf, assuming a regular couple, different from her smoking weed with 2 dudes. Unless the guy was flirting with her which is unlikely with his gf there, its basically like she's smoking with 2 chicks.
I guess, to me, nothing is technically wrong with it. Personally, I find chicks who smoke weed unattractive in the first place, but that's just me. If she's exclusive with you and still going to bars alot and that open to strangers, that could be a red flag.
First, I'd say explain to yourself what the problem with her actions were. Do you think it was more than just smoking weed? Do you think she lied and maybe it was just a guy alone? I'd say that has more to do with whether you trust her. Is it that she is so friendly she would hop into a strange person's car? If so, she would be the type who is that open and it shouldnt be bothering you now
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