Hey guys Im in what I hope is a common phase in relationships which is the point where I have been questioning why I am in a relationship at all.

Here is the situation. I've been with my gf for about 10 months. She is great with me. Very pretty, accepting of my interests and she doesn't complain much. That's great right? But the problem is that I kinda get bored sometimes. I think the reason is that I find that there is really nothing proprietary about her. Nothing really makes me feel like she is "special." I feel like if we were to break up my biggest problem would just be that I'd miss not having her to talk to every day like a therapist.

I guess what I'm seeking is excitement. I always wish I had a girl like Jessica Nigri who is hot and into video games which is a real one of a kind trait for a girl to have but I know that is more difficult to obtain than a winning powerball lottery ticket.

Can somebody help me get my mind right? How do you sort of get past this issue? Is this normal for every couple or does this mean I need to find a new girl that does make me think she is special and one of a kind?

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Very few relationships remain "exciting" after the 6 month period. Remember you are the man in the relationship, so it's up to you to lead her into exciting new adventures. e.g. Go travelling, start a business or take up a new sport together. Don't just wait for your girl to entertain you. She's not your personal clown.

Once you become more experienced with girls you will realise that many girls are in fact, extremely boring to talk to. They listen to shitty music, they watch shitty TV drama or reality shows, they love talking about shoes and shopping. But when you are blinded by a woman's beauty, you tend to ignore these things because you are mesmerised by the sight of her tight pussy and beautiful titties.

I highly recommend experimenting in the bedroom, as it does wonders for your libido and brings you closer as a couple. How often are you having sex and to what extent are you getting kinky in the bedroom?

+1 this.

Scientifically, romantic love only lasts for about a year at the most. Being men, our attraction to women is generally based on how they look. So if you are drawn in by her physical qualities, you'll likely not want her after more than a few months if you don't share some common interests.

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That, and I agree with finding some new hobbies you can take up together. like start doing ballroom dancing once a week. go fishing, horseback riding, ice skating pottery class, etc

Thanks guys. This is all good advice. I want to try to get her into video games so we can have something fun to do together but that's a long shot. Especially since she doesn't live with me. I just gotta find ways to be more interested in her. I hate how boring women are.

I also need to stifle my hunger for game. I have trouble resisting approaching a hot girl in a bar. I miss using my skill I worked so hard on.

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This a perfectly normal evolutionary psychological phenomena called “the coolidge effect.” It’s based off our animalistic instincts to get bored and want to sleep with other women after a certain amount of time. This is why I don’t usually start relationships, because the woman/women would have to be pretty fvcking awesome (and probably stupid hot) in order to keep me interested. I prefer to just have lots of fvck buddies, it’s the best of both worlds.

Now I’m not saying you shouldn’t be in a relationship. If you love the girl you’re with then by all means make her your girlfriend. But if she really isn’t up to your girlfriend standards, I would try to talk with her about having an open relationship. If she isn’t into the idea of that, and you really don’t want to be with just her anymore, than it’s time to move on dude.

If you choose the latter, she might even realize that she would rather share you rather than lose you at all, and agree to the open relationship. It’s your call bro, you have to decide what the right move for you is.

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