I'm having a really hard time doing this. I have two full time girlfriends, one in town with me in Des Moines, and another in Syracuse that I visit regularly, as well as the girls that I go on and off with. I find it nearly impossible to keep them all separate, (one girlfriend knows about the other, has almost told second one on several occasions) Do I just have my expectations to high, or is it possible to have long term girl friends while also living the PUA lifestyle? Any tips would be greatly appreciated, thanks!

Too be blunt my friend. In this situation it might just be too late because, it's best too let the girls know from the jump (meaning from the start) that, you date other woman and, just not looking for something too serious. you do this preferably after your first kiss. shoot neil struass (who is a married man right now) at one point was dating 9 woman at once and they all knew about each other (maybe not directly) but, they knew there were others.

Let them know from the start and there will be no disasters later.

Also if your going to be dating other woman at the same time. Don't expect them not to be dating other men as well.

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Keep your contact to a girl at most once a week or once every two weeks. As the poster above me said, you should have let them know firsthand that you're dating several women all at once.

Next, keep the sex REALLY good. Women will stick around as long as you provide excellent sex and maximum fun.

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You are going to get lots of drama if the girls don't agree with the arrangement. It will wear you down emotionally.
So just be honest that you want an open relationship from the beginning. Don't just leave hints. Say it.
In your case, it will come a point when the girl that doesn't know about the other will find out properly and they will both turn against you. You have to be prepared to leave the one that is not alright with this arrangement.
The sooner things come out in the open the better. Otherwise drama will build up. Don't do secrets. They always backfire.
If you wouldn't like something done to you most likely if you do it to a girl she won't like it either. So honesty is the key. Your friend is browsing the dating scene. The more you browse the more likely you'll find what you want.

So you're two timing and you're trying to get others on board. Additionally, they all have no idea about this little arrangement. Fuck me, you're a cunt.

Break up with all of them because you don't deserve any of them is what I want to say. But there would be no point in typing out advice like that, you wouldn't listen anyway. Tell them all that you want an open relationship instead of being exclusive. If they're ok with it, then start finding other girls. Otherwise, dump them because it'll only bring trouble if you don't.