Can someone please give me ideas on showing effort to your girl? i mean, i need those cheesy plays like flying sky lanterns together, making a music video for her. that kind of stuffs. I'm running out of creativity and i really want to surprise my girl in our anniversary, which is next month. Have you guys tried something like that? or watched someone do that? just want an idea. thanks.

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- send her flowers to work (this one is very effective)
- write a poem

depends though. how old are you ? which anniversary ?

the point of the gift is to show you were thinking about her dont be normal ie just flowers, u can do flowers but dont make that the gift, if you can draw make her a drawing of say her favorite things ie if she likes the beach. or if you have a photo of her draw it. the idea of the gift is to show that whens shes not around your are thinking about her without being verbal. Ie I really like you, dont say that you like her show it.

tell her the week before or the day before I wanna take you somewhere, go to a local candy store and say pickout your favorite candy. if you know what it is say so. I know you like blah blah blah, but I want to see what else you like

tell her something bad happened with the family and you need to go and that you need her to come with you cause your scared "I really need you to be there", then instead of going home take her to the place you first ate out together at.

go to an arts and craft store and find beads that are her favorite colors. (hint: usually the colors of her bedroom) make a bracelet or necklace for her. < depends on which she wears more of, if you think about it hard enough you'll know which

cook her food, an anniversary is about both of you and even though you don't realise it shes thinking what do I get him also. by taking the initiative shell be able to relax more. a part of her will feel like she isn't putting enough into the anniversary so you'll get points for that. if this sounds to much like saying im better than you then take her to the store the day before with some ideas for food but you want her to help with the ingrediants that way she eats something she likes

tell her you want to paint her toenails and or fingernails, after sometime and it dries find a table or something for her to lay on and tell her to lay down, dont mention anything about taking of clothes. when anyone gets a massage their initial thought with touch is to take off clothers. if you don't mention it shell do it unconsiously or if shes playful verbally < go with it

plan a day for her Ie, a local softball game (insert what she likes) browsing at the mall (or anywhere where its a walk) I suggest a walk first as it builds suspense and this little inkling feeling like she doesn't know if you actually planned anything but u have to have something after the walk

whatever your gift is for this girl is gonna be the basis for what she thinks you think the relationship is.

If their is anything she likes to do that you dont, for example say you dont like to dance but she does then take her dancing, key point you mush dance without worry if your doing it right. she already knows what you don't like and that your doing it for her

Hand make a card for her. It's super intimate and they love it.

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flowers. cards. LOL can't remember anything more lame than that. typical afc.

be bold. offer her something that she will enjoy. it has to be related to her. if she likes paris, take her there. if she likes surf take her on a surf trip. if she wanted to try sky diving offer that. offer experiences rather than a physical object. specially things that you can enjoy with her. be creative. no one can tell you what to offer because we don't know her. be innovative. think outside the box. things like dining on a sailboat. a trip in a helicopter or hot air baloon. you don't have to spend loads of cash. ofc helps but you don't. dining at sunset on the beach. a night in a castle. go to a place where you can watch shooting stars, organize a mass mob just for her, make a trip to a vineyard.
you get the idea. it has to be meaningful.

Cards from hallmark are AFC. But when you hand make it yourself, it is very unique. I did a 10 reasons I love you card. Each page had a reasons and little drawings. She was gushing over it.

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