So, met some girl last week got with her all night, then when i asked her when she was free she said she would get back to me, which she didnt, so i just came out with it and she came over tonight to watch a film. We chatted for an hour or so, then watched the film in bed. At the time wasnt close, i thought i would wait till the end of the film to make a move, as my ex would never wanna do anything until the end.

Gets to the end, and she says she should go soon, and i just lean over and start getting with her, going good, slide my hand down when my house mate knocks on the door being a bell end, and then she says she should go, and gets up, i get with her near the door again then she goes.

This knocked me a bit as I was confused as to why she would leave so fast. Usually girls will stay for a bit more and end up having sex or saying they arnt putting out, but she was just off, i thrust myself into her thighs a few times and she was kissing more aggressivy and seemed to be enjoying it.

I heard off her friends that she has only ever slept with one guy, could this just be her wanting to trust me more?

She loves texting, and text me back straight away, and I said, you ran off quick? was the film too scary, in which she replied, I didnt run , and no xx,

Maybe she is just being a virgin. Anyone got any advice on this as iv never had it, and getting back into the game after a while felt so good, but such a knock at the same time.

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She MIGHT have thought you weren't into doing much if you laid low during the movie. Most girls don't mind if you go for it during the movie. After all she was in your bed. Timing and logistics caused her to leave, she seems into you.

Yeah i guess you are right. I wasn't sure how forward to be as i know shes not that experienced. Any suggestions on anything I can do with her this week coming? I need to up the sexual tension between us, but another movie would just be samey.

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Make dinner for her or have her make dinner for you. Don't de-escalate the venue. Private location 100%.

gave a cheeky text today saying hows the lay in etc... she said it was good, i said she should have stayed for cuddles, which she replied "maybe next time xx" , me: who says thiers gonna be a next time ? , her: haha xx

seemed a bit blunt, was thinking as im away the week end, text to build some rapport? or just message her when im back. I feel as tho we have a good laugh, but the rapport just hasnt been given the right amount of time, hmmm, maybe i should just leave it,

next step though, im not too comfitable about asking her over for dinner as i have a crappy bowel condition so usually plan my meals out, so never eat when i see girls, maybe i should just come out with it, but need to get the right frame and girls usually find it hilarious.

Maybe a walk to the castle? then back to mine? Fuck knows, but i feel as though i should ask her about how she feels and maybe let her know that im not into pressuring her into sex. But at the same time letting her know im loaded with 100 nukes and could aim somewhere else at any time.

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She's quite clearly into you, not sure why you sent that as a reply but it doesn't matter. It's on.
You're overthinking things hugely, use texts to arrange a meet up, texting to build comfort usually makes girls bored in my experience. Meet up with her.
DO NOT ASK HER HOW SHE FEELS! Be the man, escalate and fuck her. If she asks you to stop or says she isn't comfortable, then be understanding and slow down, that way you're demonstrating that you're not pressuring her but you're also man enough to go for what you want.

Agreed with the previous poster. Don't tell her about the bowel condition until after you've had sex. Invite her over to make bread or cookies then. Why make unnecessary work for yourself by de-escalating the venue. Impossible to go full kino etc. if you're not at your (or her) place.